Don't let people use your insecurities.
Some people will do everything possible to keep you under your thumb, to try and mess with your energy, and your happiness. They think they have the upper hand, but they are dead wrong. They think your insecurities make you weak and easily manipulated. But they are wrong. You are strong willed enough to not let anyone manipulate your feelings at a whim, they are just too weak minded to understand this fact. Never let anyone think they have dominion over your happiness or security. You have that choice to make. Be strong and courageous for your happiness and peace of mind. You are not your insecurities. You are powerful.