You need to consider your happiness in all things! Otherwise this world will try and decide it for you. Take the reigns on your happiness and steer it in whatever direction YOU wish to go,
Thursday, May 24, 2018
Wednesday, May 23, 2018
Shattered Trust Cuts Deep
You're better off being alone than being with someone who makes you feel
alone. Because at the end of the day the person who you were with
obviously didn't really care about how you felt and the time spent alone
can be used to recharge your mind and spirit.
Though in all honesty when the trust you put in another is broken,
it hurts something awful and once its shattered into pieces the attempt
to put it back together is without a doubt one of the hardest things to
deal with in life, but some people (not all) are worth going through
such an excruciating process, so that you can begin to build the tower
of trust up once again brick by brick. Broken
trust truly cuts deep right down to the soul of a person, it is such a
hard feeling to describe with mere words. All that can be said is stay
trustworthy for yourself even if others are prone to betray.
That's why you should never apologize for leaving a situation to make yourself happier. your
health matters and your happiness is important and if the person you are
with cannot understand that well then they can be dismissed. Never
settle for less than you deserve when it comes to ANYTHING! Life is too
short to even begin to live like that.
All is equal in love, it doesn't matter who makes the most money or who
has the better education, you should be focused on how to better one
another in a positive way and not putting each other down. Love is equal.
(that being said both parties should be able to bring something to the
table people cannot survive off of love alone)/
Mutual respect is easily one of the most important things to having a
healthy relationship, after all what kind of love would come from having
zero respect for your one and only (Hint: a very very very
dysfunctional one). Everything from words to actions should show that
you both appreciate and respect each other because...Love is mutual
respect. And if you find that the person you are with cannot understand
what *mutual* respect is...it's time to have them hit the road.
As
a couple, progressing in a direction both parties can agree on is a
necessity to any healthy relationship. It serves no purpose for a couple
to come together only to veer in two different directions, as it will
most likely end up hindering the relationship further down the line.
So
if you cannot progress with them it might be for the best that you find
someone who is going the same way as you, relationships always work
better when synergy takes place of chaos.
Tuesday, May 22, 2018
In Spite Of The Negativity Around You Stay Positive.
Your positive mindset has to be so ingrained in you that it can never be shaken by negative people nor negative situations. It's up to you to live each day with the type of mindset that you want and not the one outside influences tell you that you should have, these outside influences only seek to penetrate and ultimately destroy your place of peace. In spite of the negativity around you stay positive. Therein lies your true power. Use it to combat the whims of the world by protecting your peace and fending off negativity.
Monday, May 21, 2018
Be Your Own Person.
Saturday, May 19, 2018
Be fearless and unrelenting
Your journey will not look like anyone else's but that's OK because it doesn't have to. Everyone walks a different path toward happiness, and we all have road blocks and pitfalls along the way that tend to make this journey treacherous. But know this your mind and soul are your best weapons to tear the walls from their foundation and cross those pitfalls with confidence. Now I'm not saying it's going to be easy, hell in fact it's going to be down right hard, but it will be worth it in the end. Just remember to never let other people lead you off of your path and onto theirs. Be fearless and unrelenting in the pursuit of your happiness.
Friday, May 18, 2018
Negativity Doesn't deserve you!
Stop letting negative people have a foothold in YOUR life! If a person wants to be a negative influence on your life don't just let them come and go as they please, dismiss them! Your life is way too important to allow negativity to rule over your happiness. Negativity doesn't deserve you! Go where you belong and seek your happiness and sustain your positivity away from the toxic people. Happiness and positivity deserve you and you deserve them!
Get Back to Being Happy!
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Happiness is a journey! Its going to take a great amount of will to live a happy life and it's within your power to do so if you really want to have lasting positive change in your life. Now sometimes while on this journey of happiness we tend to stop and become stagnant, we easily forget how much action being happy really takes while contending with people,work, money, and life in general. Even in the midst of all these distractions you have to keep going toward YOUR happiness no matter what.You are strong! You will value yourself even more! Its time to focus on your happiness journey.
Thursday, May 17, 2018
Built From A Foundation Of Loyalty
Never allow a disloyal person to overstay their welcome in your life. If they cannot be bothered to be loyal to you, why would you want them in your sphere? That space should always be reserved for the most loyal of people. Disloyal people are only out for themselves and honestly could care less about what happens to you and your feelings so they tend to step on them whenever it benefits them the most. The best thing you can do for yourself is to just love people like that from a distance! Loyalty is one of the most important things in life. The strongest relationships you will have in this world are formed upon a solid foundation of loyalty. Living your life surrounded by loyal people will allow peace and happiness to be more readily available in your life. Never give too much energy to people who do not deserve it,
Wednesday, May 16, 2018
Fight For Your Happiness.
Fight for your happiness with everything you have! Nobody has the right to challenge your way of living unless you let them. They cannot even begin to understand your meaning of happiness and self-love so let them know that your happiness is not something easily taken, That you won't let it go without a fight.
Tuesday, May 15, 2018
Love Only Prevails If Its Real
Being with someone you cannot rely on is counter-productive to any type of security you could ever want in a relationship (and who doesn't want security? Right?), it truly goes hand in hand with trust, being in a relationship with a reliable person bring about a deeper connection with your partner you know they will always be there to catch you when you stumble and will always have your back indefinitely.
There is no reason for anyone to have to endure the misery of a spouse while in a relationship. The whole reason for a partnership is to have mutual support, but if one side of the party refuses to even try to eliminate the personal misery they carry, what is the point from staying in a such a relationship? Tolerating a manipulative spouse is not good under any circumstances so don't.
Thursday, May 10, 2018
Wednesday, May 9, 2018
You Define Your Own Happiness.
The only definition of happiness that should matter to you is your own.
Your happiness is not something anyone else should have power over, you
deserve better than that. The single most important decision you will
ever make in your life is ultimately when you decide to stop waiting for
happiness to come to you and instead choose to go seek it out for
yourself. This journey to happiness is not supposed to be easy but the
road will make you stronger! Happiness is the greatest form of self-love
you could give to yourself. Once you find your happiness never
let ANYONE or ANYTHING get in the way of it. If it's not making you
happy it's not even worth it.
Monday, May 7, 2018
Be a Warrior.
Excuses
are not and should not be confused with genuine reasons as to why
something didn't work out, because sometimes things do not go the way we
plan at all, with that said excuses need to go, they serve absolutely no good purpose in anyone's life, so stay motivated, move forward, and leave the excuses behind.
Friday, May 4, 2018
Love is Growth. Love is Difficult.Love is Life. Love is.
Knowing that somebody loves you so completely and utterly should bring some type of tranquility into ones life, this feeling of being loved is almost indescribable in nature
and even though relationships have many ups and downs, hell sometimes
it can be down right painful, but when everything is said and done a
sort of calm should still be present, because in the face of a strong
relationship all issues should become irrelevant compared to the love
you have for one another.
If
this serenity is nowhere to be found within a relationship it may be
time to just call it quits because nobody should settle for constant
chaos with no end in sight.
No relationship should be forged based on what a person might become, but instead it should be made upon the foundation of what each individual has to offer the relationship in the *present* so that you both may grow together and head toward a bright future. By falling in love with a person's potential one is pretty much casting aside who that person is in the *now* and instead is focusing on what he/she may become in the future and that almost never ends well.
Love is the feeling of being in a state of completion, where nothing else can fill that void in the deepest part of your heart except that one special person, it's not being able to see yourself with anyone else in the world, because without that person you would simply feel empty inside, you can live, but you don't feel complete.
Never fall in love with a person's potential
Selfishness can cause even the strongest relationships to fracture. Nobody wants to be with someone who tends to be so focused on themselves that they cannot see the relationship. That being said, the priorities in a healthy relationship should be the ability to create an environment of caring for one another because its much better to have a person who is willing to share everything with you, go through hard times with you, and love you accordingly.
Listening is a vital part of any relationship, nobody wants to be with someone that does not listen to them. With listening comes understanding and with that problems within the relationship can be addressed and fixed (which is always good while in a relationship of course). Listening and communication go hand in hand and it should be equal so that one partner does not feel overburdened by the other. listening is love.
Love can inspire one to become a better person, to make sacrifices one never thought possible, and the power to conquer so much in life. The power that love has is unlimited, and stretches through time and space. Truly it is the greatest gift ever given to this world. Love is inspiration.
Secrets and lies will eventually destroy a relationship as they tend to build up until they can no longer be contained. Being with someone that truly loves every part of you, there is really no need for any secrets nor lies in any healthy relationship because they should have a foundation of mutual trust. One may be able to get over some lies, but tend to have a type snowball effect and lead bigger ones before its all said and done so its best to just be honest, while having secrets just says that one does not trust their partner with the whole truth...(trust is either 0% or 100% a person cannot trust somebody 50% of the time and expect the relationship to prosper). Love simply doesn't need these two things around it as it tends to be counter productive to happiness in the relationship.
When heading into a potential long term relationship one of the first
steps is to set aside some time to think about mutual goals and put them
into writing. It may be helpful to do this together so both parties can
reflect on each others true desires for the long term.
Sometimes it can be tempting to set to many unrealistic goals that end
up going nowhere and lose sight of the big picture which is a long
lasting love.
Both of your goals should ultimately lead to the betterment of your relationship and life as a whole.
Setting realistic goals in love is often a balancing act of sorts, as it
requires one to have the ability to attain these goals while still
being able to keep a healthy relationship maintained.
No Matter what happened in the past how is it fair to throw that upon the back of the present relationship? All its going to do is struggle under the weight. Its not fair to you nor your partner. The past needs to stay in the past so you can enjoy the present.
When you really stand back and look at love from a distance you will notice that somehow it is both complex and very simple at the same time which i honestly just find amazing.
Be with someone who wants to know how your day went and never let anyone in this world make you feel that you're not good enough, no need to settle for anything less in this life.
More often than not when you enter into a relationship naysayers will begin to pop up, this could be family or friends that one annoying co-worker or neighbor who simply feels the need to butt into something that doesn't necessarily concern them. While having family and friends feel concern for you and your lover is sometimes a good thing some people tend to take it to far and end up literally trying to tear apart the relationship either on purpose or in inadvertently which is not ok.
If you find that while being in a relationship you are unhappy 90% of the time, it is time to reevaluate why you are still with this person, settling for less is one thing but to settle for 90% less is not ever going to be a good thing. The fact is your happiness and the happiness of the other person involved should be paramount and this should be as close to equal as possible. If it can somehow be worked out that is great indeed, but if not happiness with another is right around the corner.
A relationship takes a team effort, if you are in to that type of thing). Let them know that you and your partner do not need the extra input and always remember to stand up for one another AT ALL TIMES! Its YOU and YOUR partners relationship and outside interference needs to be drowned out for the sake of keeping a healthy relationship. if they do not understand after all that well drop them from your life because they only wanted to see you fail regardless.
No relationship will ever be perfect, it will without a doubt be a series of crazy ups and downs. Nobody is perfect, and as such expecting a relationship to be smooth sailing the whole way is just not realistic because it takes hard work and commitment toward each other to make it through the rough times that will inevitably come to pass. Love is such a complex thing but once you accept that imperfection is not settling for less the complexities of said love will start to become a bit more practical.
Be with someone who will love you for who you are and yet is always ready to be the support you need as you grow (this goes both ways). Pretty much this will require a strong desire to communicate with one another. No point in being in a relationship without getting and giving some type of support right? Never forget how to love yourself too ok? Remember to BECOME love, learn how to RECEIVE love, and how to also GIVE love.The little things in relationships matter so much. The simple conversations about nothing, breakfast in bed( who doesn't like breakfast in bed), flowers and surprise gifts are always going to be fun. It doesn't matter if the relationship has been going on for 5 years or 5 months you better believe the little things can create a big impact on the relationship being a happy one.
What's the point of being a relationship if you cannot work as a *team* to navigate this world? Never let any accomplishments in love be downplayed, congratulations should always be in order when you or your partner succeed at something in life (love takes a team of two).
Remember to grow together with your important person, over time you will grow in different ways but it should lead you right back to
each other in a healthy relationship(and if its not it may be best to
split). The goal here is the acceptance of each others growth while
heading into a love filled future.
LOVE
= mutual respect, admiration, caring, kindness, nurturing, looking out
for the others best interests, and both putting 100% into the
relationship.
Love is growth
Thursday, May 3, 2018
Your Freedom.
Personal freedom allows you to express yourself in unlimited ways, and
once you gain this freedom of self you will find yourself unfazed by the
judgement and negativity of others because nothing like that ever bind
you again.
The strongest person in the room carries with them personal freedom,
they have come into themselves and know exactly who they are, and what
they want.
It's always been there for the taking we need only grab it and become unchained.
Wednesday, May 2, 2018
Little Big Truths
Never forget these few small truths that are actually very BIG.
- Live life the way you want to.
- Love who you want to how you want to.
- Never apologize for being who you are even if it changes by the second. They can either adapt or be removed.
- Accept new opportunities and sudden hardships alike.
- Forgive the past, Love the present, and prepare for the future.
- Be fearless. Why? Because the only purpose of fear is to drive away all love and happiness in your life. You don't need that type of negativity in your life.
- Know that you have no need to compare yourself to anyone because you are already a boss.
- Be genuinely happy for others and make sure that the people you let in your circle are genuinely happy for you too.
- Remember that a little gratitude goes a long way.
- Don't let anyone harm your growth in life. You deserve more than that out of life.
- Self love is your greatest weapon and your most sturdy shield.
Tuesday, May 1, 2018
You Have to Live Life On Your Own Terms
It's time to live life on your own terms and to do that, tuning out all the senseless remarks people throw at you along the way is essential, they don't deserve to be acknowledged in the first place. Don’t waste
words or time on people who deserve not only your silence but the bare minimum of your time. The most powerful
thing you can say is nothing at all and just let them watch your rise as they look on in jealousy and spite. Seriously though, before you waste your precious time on being frustrated with what someone has done, think of how precious and irreplaceable
your time actually is today and will be tomorrow.
Give yourself a permanent all expenses paid vacation from the drama that some people want to bring to your life, It
can be easily avoided by not engaging in the game they want you to play. Your life is just too important
to spend it arguing and fighting for something so meaningless. Take heart and count your blessings, Why not value the people who deserve to be in your life,
and move on from the ones to definitely do not with your head held high instead? Gather your peace and protect it from the negative at all times otherwise they will attempt to take it away from you.
The ability to not allow people to mess with your positive mindset is what
keeps your mind clear, your heart in a peaceful state, and yourself moving
forward without anything holding you back. Constructive criticism is to be taken seriously, but not personally.
Listen to others and consider the words they speak, and then apply your own intuition and wisdom as
your guide. Once you have actually decided to live life on your own terms nothing can impeded your rise!
