To Avoid Disappointment

Tuesday, December 27, 2022

Avoid Disappointment

Avoid Disappointment


It can be difficult to manage your expectations and avoid disappointment. On the one hand, you want to believe in yourself and know that your dreams are attainable. But on the other hand, not all of them will come true — at least not exactly as you envisioned them. In fact, great things usually don't happen when everything goes according to plan; they happen when we're willing to take risks and go with our gut feelings instead of going with what's comfortable or safe.

That being said, here are some tips for avoiding disappointment with something that's important to me:

Be the best version of yourself, regardless of what others think of you.

First, you have to be the best version of yourself, regardless of what others think. No matter how much someone tries to bring you down or tell you that your life is useless, don’t let their words or actions get to you. Remember that they are usually unhappy with themselves and have developed a way of coping by making other people feel bad as well. We all know someone who is like this in our life and it isn't fair for them to make us feel bad about ourselves either. This person might not be a good friend but it doesn't mean that we should stop being friends with them because if we do then this person has won again!

There are many things in life which can cause us disappointment but if we stay positive then we will always find ways around disappointment! Be confident in your own skin and don't let other people's opinions dictate your life decisions; instead, focus on moving forward towards achieving your goals no matter what obstacles come along the way

Avoid overthinking.

It’s easy to fall into the trap of overthinking, especially when you are faced with a challenging situation or an uncertain future. You can spend hours running through every possible outcome and coming up with every potential solution in your mind. While this may feel productive at first, it will quickly lead to an overwhelming sense of anxiety and stress as you become more aware of how little control you actually have over what happens.

Overthinking is also a form of escapism; it allows us to remove ourselves from reality by escaping into our own minds where there are no limits or restrictions on our thoughts or emotions. We can create any scenario we want in order for things to turn out favorably for us (e.g., if only I had done X instead). Over time this type of thinking becomes ingrained in our psyche as we begin seeing ourselves as victims rather than as autonomous agents who are responsible for their own lives and decisions (e.g., if only they hadn't said Y then things would be different). This negative mindset brings along feelings such as depression and anger which may result in engaging in destructive behaviors such as overeating/binging watching Netflix binges/etc., which only serve further reinforce these negative thought patterns!

Stay in the present moment.

  • Live in the present. Don't waste your time thinking about what happened yesterday or what's going to happen tomorrow. You can learn something valuable from the past, but dwelling on it doesn't help you grow and change as a person.

  • Don't worry about things you cannot change. It's easy to get stuck worrying about things out of our control—we make plans based on what we think will happen, but often reality doesn't cooperate with our expectations. When you find yourself dwelling on something that's beyond your control, stop yourself and refocus on what you can do right now in this moment of time—and then move forward!

Learn to listen, not hear

Listening is a two-way street. It's not about hearing what people say; it's about hearing what they mean.

You can hear the words, but if you don't listen to the tone and emotion behind them, then your understanding will be incomplete at best and completely wrong at worst. The same word can have multiple meanings depending on how it's said or how it fits into context with everything else being said around it.

When you're listening to someone else talk, pay attention to their body language as well as their facial expressions—both are indicators of what they're feeling at that moment and can help clarify what they're trying to say by giving insight into their true feelings about something instead of just being able to interpret words alone (which sometimes won't tell you much).

Learn the difference between the ego and the soul.

The ego is the part of you that wants to be right and wants to win. It’s the part of you that wants to be successful, get promoted, and make more money. It’s also your inner critic—the voice in your head that says you aren’t good enough, smart enough or worthy enough.

The soul is the part of you that wants to be good and wants help other people. The soul doesn’t care about winning or being right. Instead, it cares about what happens in life beyond just oneself or one's immediate family (or tribe). It cares about making a positive difference in the world on a grand scale—through acting with kindness towards others and helping people who are less fortunate than we are ourselves through acts of charity or philanthropy; through working at something bigger than ourselves; through setting an example with our actions; by using our talents for good rather than evil...

Practice self-love.

  • Practice self-love.

  • You need to love yourself before you can truly love others, so it may be helpful to put in a little extra effort in this area. As the saying goes, “you are your own worst critic”—so what does that look like? It might mean taking a moment every day to write down something nice about yourself or making sure that you catch yourself before criticizing your appearance or thoughts too harshly.

In addition to being kinder toward ourselves, we also need to be more aware of how we treat ourselves when things don't go our way or don't go according to plan. Try not to let negative thoughts spiral out of control; instead, try reframing them into something positive such as “I made an honest mistake and will learn from it next time." Or simply remind yourself that even if things aren't going according to plan right now (and they rarely do), there's always another chance tomorrow!

You can't always control what happens but you can control how you react to it

It's hard to avoid disappointment when we allow ourselves to be disappointed. We can't control what happens in life, but we always have the option of how we react. Sometimes the best way to deal with disappointment is by not letting it dictate your future. Don't let what happened in the past define who you are today or who you will become tomorrow. Make sure your own self-worth doesn't depend on other people's opinions of you either because that could lead to depression if you don't agree with those opinions.

Don't compare yourself to impossible standards.

Don't compare yourself to impossible standards.

As humans, it's easy for us to get lost in the comparison game. We look at someone else and think that they have a perfect life or career; then we compare ourselves and realize that we don't measure up. But this kind of thinking can be seriously damaging to your self-esteem and confidence—and ultimately, it can hold you back from achieving what you want in life.

There are two ways you can avoid feeling disappointed when comparing yourself: First, remember that there's no such thing as a perfect person; everyone has flaws (even the people who seem like they are flawlessly put together). Second, remember that everyone experiences pain and struggle; if someone else seems like their life is better than yours now, don't assume that means their future will always be better too!

Don't expect others to live up to your own values..

Don't expect others to live up to your own values.

In the same way that you are not perfect, neither is anyone else. Expecting others to be perfect is a surefire recipe for disappointment and frustration. You may find yourself getting angry at them when they don't act or behave exactly as you expect them to, but it's important that you remember that this isn't their fault—it's yours! You have created these high expectations for yourself and then attempted to impose them on others. It's unlikely they'll feel comfortable conforming in this way; after all, who likes being told what to do?

Sometimes you have to accept that things don't always go as planned.

Sometimes, the best you can do is accept that things won't go as planned. Acceptance is the first step towards change. If you can't change something, at least you can change your attitude about it. The difference between acceptance and resignation is subtle but important: accepting reality doesn't mean giving up hope or being resigned to something negative happening—it means accepting that things are what they are and finding a way to make the most of them.

Acceptance doesn't mean that we don't want improvement; on the contrary, it helps us improve because when we're able to accept our situation instead of fighting against it, we're better able to act rationally rather than emotionally (which leads us down a path towards more frustration). It's possible for example for someone who has lost their job due to layoffs at their company but decides not having one isn’t worth being depressed over—instead focusing on how they'll spend their time differently now or planning how they can find another job after some time off work—that person might feel better than someone who feels defeated by losing his/her job (or worse yet angry) even though both situations require acceptance before moving forward with plans/actionable steps!


We all need to learn these lessons at some point in our lives. We have to accept the fact that sometimes our plans don't work out and there is nothing we can do about it. We also have to realize that it's okay to feel disappointed because it's an emotion that everyone has experienced before us. The important thing is not letting those feelings stay too long because they might lead us down a path of depression or worse!



Reframe your perspective

Saturday, November 19, 2022

Reframe your perspective


Reframe your perspective


If you want to make a change in your life, the most important thing is to take an honest look at how you're viewing it. If you ruminate on negative thoughts or visualize yourself failing, these images will become self-fulfilling prophecies. But if you can reframe your perspective and see the positive side of things—and really believe that what's going on isn't so bad at all—then change can happen for you.

Love yourself enough to treat yourself.

This is a hard one because I often find myself struggling with the idea of treating myself. But, if you really think about it, what could be more important than treating yourself well? It’s so easy to get caught up in our daily lives that we forget to love ourselves enough to treat ourselves well.

There are many ways you can treat yourself and give yourself some self-care time: yoga, meditation or just having an afternoon nap when there’s nothing pressing on your agenda can all help boost your mood and make you feel more relaxed. And if you keep at it, then eventually those moments will become part of your life—and even easier to fit in!

Think of your life with no limits.

You have to think of your life with no limits. The key is to focus on what you can do, not what you can't. The next time you feel like something is holding you back, ask yourself: "What would happen if I didn't let this stop me?" Often times the answer will be: nothing! And that's a good thing because it means that there isn't really anything stopping you in the first place.

Set goals and achieve them by being ambitious and having big dreams for yourself, but don't let fear hold you back from starting small if that's what works best for your situation and personality type (which is why we recommend testing out different things around here). Don't be afraid to fail because failing doesn't mean giving up or failing completely; it just means learning something new so that next time around when those same issues arise again they won’t trip up your progress like they did before.

Reconsider your definition of success.

Your definition of success is a life-changing concept that can lead you to live a more meaningful and fulfilling life. If you want to truly achieve success, it's important to reconsider your definition of success. Many people fall into the trap of thinking that being wealthy or having status is what constitutes true fulfillment in life, but this couldn't be further from the truth. True happiness comes from living a meaningful life and helping others along the way.

If you want to make a positive difference in your community and see yourself as successful, then it's time for some serious soul searching about what really matters most to you in life—and how best you can pursue those passions while making other people happy along the way (or even saving them). My number one piece of advice would be: define success differently!

Create new habits for yourself and repeat them daily.

Habits are the building blocks of our lives. They can help us focus, be productive and contribute to society in positive ways. What are habits? Habits are behaviors that we repeat regularly because they become automatic. Let's say you wake up at 6 a.m., go for a run, get ready for work and eat breakfast daily before heading off to the office or elsewhere. These habits formed over time because you repeated them daily until they became automatic—you don't need to think about what you're doing next because it has become habit-like behavior for you!

What happens if we don't develop good habits? Unfortunately, bad ones tend to take hold instead; these include procrastination and lack of motivation. Bad habits can cause problems in relationships as well as negatively impact our careers with missed deadlines due to poor time management skills caused by lack of planning or disorganization caused by laziness or lackadaisical attitude towards responsibilities such as completing projects on time without having revised them beforehand (the latter example being more common than one might think).

Focus on where you want to go, not where you are.

The first step is to reframe your perspective. Instead of focusing on where you are, focus on where you want to go. Instead of focusing on what you have achieved, focus on what you want to achieve.

Focus on the future, not the past. Focus on what you want to do, not what you are doing. This simple shift in thinking can help open your mind up for new ideas and possibilities for yourself and your business—which will ultimately lead to growth and success!

Find your purpose and live life by it.

Find your purpose and live life by it. How do you find your purpose? You have to start with the end in mind, and then work backwards from there.

How do you live your purpose? By making a decision, then taking action on that decision. The more often you take action towards fulfilling your goal, the closer you are to achieving it.

See the best in others and in yourself.

Seeing the best in others is a skill that will serve you well and make you happier. I have been guilty of this myself, but it's something I'm consciously working on. It helps me to remember that everyone makes mistakes and everyone has their own struggles and experiences that they have to deal with every day just like we do.

Seeing the best in yourself is also important, because the more beautiful your inner world is, the more beautiful your life can be too. We all have things we wish we could change about ourselves—I know I do! But when we focus on seeing only our negative qualities, other people will begin to see us as negative too; instead of seeing them as positive role models who inspire us or motivate us to be better versions of ourselves

Be okay with being uncomfortable.

It's okay to be uncomfortable. In fact, you should be ready and willing to feel that way when you're trying something new or taking a risk. It means that you're growing and learning, which is the whole point of life.

However! You shouldn't stay there. If you never take action outside of what's comfortable for you, then there's no growth—and therefore no meaning or purpose in this world for any of us. So try new things as often as possible—but don't get stuck there either!

Reframe your perspective and change your mindset

As a human being, the way you think is determined by how your brain has been wired. Your thought process has been shaped by your past experiences, your education and upbringing, and even biology; it's not something that can be changed overnight. However, there are ways to change your mindset for the better.

When it comes to reframing our perspective on things, we need to be careful not to let our emotions get the best of us—it's all too easy for anger or sadness or fear or any other emotion to take over if we're not paying attention! Instead of letting negative feelings take control of us when we're dealing with hardship or failure (or even just feeling down in general), try keeping calm and reminding yourself that sometimes life throws curve-balls at us—that doesn't make them any less difficult than they might seem on paper (or even in real life). It just means that sometimes life isn't fair; but there are good things waiting around every corner if we look hard enough!


Living a more fulfilling life is all about finding new ways to think about the things that you do, as well as reframing your perspective. It can be difficult to change your mindset when rutted into old patterns or beliefs. However, by being open-minded and willing to listen to others' ideas, it will help you see how much better life can be when you look at things differently.

Reframe your perspective


Ways To Love Yourself

Saturday, October 8, 2022

start practicing self-love

Ways To Love Yourself


If you're anything like me, self-love can be a difficult concept to grasp. As a person who struggles with depression and anxiety, it's easy to feel that I don't deserve love from others or even myself. However, the truth is that anyone can practice self-love if they set their mind to it. Here are some tips that will help you build your own sense of self-worth:

Give yourself the love you deserve.

The first rule of loving yourself is giving yourself the love you deserve.

You can't give what you don't have. You have to learn how to give yourself love first before giving it to someone else. The more you show yourself love, the more it will come back around, and that's when everything starts changing in your life. You won't feel lonely anymore because there will be someone by your side, who loves and cares for you unconditionally; this person is YOU!

Accept all of your faults and be forgiving to yourself, remembering that we are all human.

There is no cure for being human. We all make mistakes, and it's important to accept that you can't be perfect.

Being forgiving towards yourself is a great way to learn from your past mistakes and move forward in life with a positive attitude. If you find yourself getting down on yourself because of something you did or said, stop immediately! Remember that we are all human and we have different strengths and weaknesses.

We are not perfect but we can try our best to make the world a better place by looking at others' perspectives before making decisions or putting ourselves down for doing something wrong or not knowing how to solve every problem in life perfectly every single time without ever making any mistakes along the way as well! Being able to accept this fact helps us live more authentically by allowing us room for growth without feeling ashamed about who we really are as individuals which leads them toward self-love instead of hating themselves for being imperfectly human beings just like everyone else out there who makes mistakes too."

Let go of negativity, and focus on the positive.

One way to love yourself is by letting go of negativity and focusing on the positive. Negative thoughts can lead to depression and anxiety, so it’s important that you recognize when your mind is falling into this downward spiral. The next time you catch yourself thinking something negative, stop and ask yourself what a more positive way to look at things would be. This may take some practice, but eventually you will get better at recognizing when your negative thoughts are taking over.

Here are some examples of positive self-talk:

Be your own best friend.

Be your own best friend.

No one is going to love you like you love yourself. You are the only person who can rely on and support you through everything that life throws at you. There will come a time when no one else will be around to tell you that everything is going to be okay, so it’s important to train yourself now in how to be your own best friend when that happens.

You should treat yourself with the same love and care as others do with themselves; even if they don’t treat themselves well all the time! If someone else was feeling down or upset, would they berate them for being sad? Or would they try and make those feelings go away by telling them something positive? That’s exactly what we need our inner self telling us! So often we beat ourselves up when things go wrong instead of accepting that no matter what happens there is always going to be another day tomorrow where anything could happen again (maybe better).

Be grateful for what you have in life.

  • Be grateful for the good things in your life.

  • Focus on the positive aspects of your life, rather than dwelling on the negative ones.

  • Be thankful for what you have and don't compare yourself to others.

Forgive any shame or issues from the past that have been lingering.

Next, forgive yourself for any mistakes you've made. Forgive yourself for any bad habits you have. There's no point in beating yourself up over them anymore! You're going to be learning new things, and even if they're not perfect at first there will be time to fix them later on. You can't change the past but you can change your future by letting go of that shame, guilt or regret and moving forward without it weighing your soul down anymore.

Finally, forgive yourself for any bad choices you've made in the past (and even present). Everyone makes mistakes sometimes—it's what happens next that matters most: how do we learn from them? How do we use this experience as a stepping stone towards making better choices in the future?

Laugh and find joy in your life.

  • Laughing is good for your health.

  • Find joy in the small things in life.

  • Finding joy in your life is a way to love yourself.

You can overcome even the most bad days with self-love.

The key to loving yourself is accepting that you are the only person who can change your life for the better. You’re the only one who can make yourself happy, feel good, or even bad. You are in control of your own happiness and self-care.

The best way to love yourself is by taking time to care for yourself: making sure that you get enough sleep, eat well, exercise when possible and take time out for fun activities on a regular basis. If you don't take care of yourself first then nobody else will be able to do it for you either!


With so much negativity in the world today, it’s easy to forget about how important it is to love yourself. Each of these steps can help you do just that. While not all of them are easy, once you start practicing self-love every day, you won’t look back!


Ways To Love Yourself

change and growth

Saturday, October 1, 2022

change and growth

Change And Growth


I'm a big fan of change, but I'm also a big fan of not doing things that are hard. In fact, I've been working on this whole "change and growth" thing for years now and it's still hard as hell. It seems like every time I start to get used to something new or different, my life changes again. And I hate that! But once you learn how to cope with change—however difficult it might be—you'll be able to accomplish so much more than you ever thought possible.

Sometimes change and growth are good for you, even if they don't feel that way at first.

You may be thinking, “Oh, no way. Change and growth are totally not for me.” But before you throw your hands up in the air and run away screaming, let's take a look at some reasons why change might actually be good for you in the long term (even though it doesn't always feel that way in the moment).

First off, we're all growing all the time. That's just part of being alive—if we weren't growing, we wouldn't have any new experiences or learn anything new about ourselves. In fact, if we don't keep growing as people then life becomes boring very quickly! Change also often leads to unexpected benefits: You might find yourself with more energy than ever before; making new friends; learning how to cook yummy food; discovering another area of interest outside of work...the list goes on!

The important thing is not to panic when a big change happens in your life or someone else's—take a deep breath and give yourself some space while you figure out how best move forward with this transition period (or even if there will be one). And remember: If something doesn't feel right anymore but isn't harmful either physically or emotionally such as job/relationship changes then it might just mean there is room for improvement so always give yourself permission first before making any huge decisions about changing direction completely!"

Even though it's difficult, change and growth are worth it.

Change is an inevitable part of life, but that doesn’t mean it has to be scary or painful. In fact, change can be good for you! You just need to keep an open mind and approach it with the right attitude.

  • Keep in mind that change isn’t always easy—even when it's for the better. If you don't like something about yourself right now and want to change it, try not to rush things or expect immediate results. Instead, take things slowly and try your best not to give up if things get tough along the way.

  • Try seeing each new situation as a challenge instead of as a roadblock preventing you from doing what needs doing in your life. Try thinking about how much stronger and more capable this new task will make you by working through it successfully rather than focusing on how difficult it is at first glance (and there's always something else out there).

  • Think about all the ways this change could benefit others around you before worrying too much about whether or not it will impact them positively as well (or negatively). Ultimately what matters most are positive outcomes for everyone involved--not necessarily personal gain​!


Change and growth are tough, but they are worth it. We all have moments when we feel like we’re stuck in a rut, or that things have become stagnant. But if you can look beyond that feeling of being stuck, you may find something new and improved waiting on the other side: happiness, peace of mind or even just a sense of accomplishment at having overcome your fears. And if not now then maybe someday soon – because as long as there are people who care about us deeply enough to want us to grow into better versions of ourselves then there will always be hope for change!


You deserve loving relationships

Wednesday, September 28, 2022

You’re better off without some relationships

You’re better off without some relationships


When it comes to relationships, we all want the same thing: healthy, happy, positive relationships that make us feel good. Unfortunately, not everyone is lucky enough to find those types of friendships and romantic relationships. The truth is that some people are toxic for us, and it's better for them not be in our lives. In fact, when you look back on bad situations with toxic people from your past (or present), there will always be one constant: someone who brings out the best in you deserves to be in your life.

Sometimes you have to accept the fact that certain things will never go back to how they used to be.

Sometimes, you have to accept that some things will never go back to how they used to be. The important thing is recognizing when a relationship has become one-sided and moving on before you get hurt.

The wrong people will discover the good person you are and take advantage of you.

It's important to remember that these toxic people are not your friends, and the fact that they're taking advantage of you makes them bad for your health. You should not feel guilty about discarding them from your life.

Take, for example, the guy who calls all the time just to talk about himself and his problems without listening to what you have to say: he's simply using you as a sounding board. Or maybe there's someone in your life who constantly borrows money from you without paying it back—they're using their friendship with you as an excuse to take advantage of someone they can trust (and probably don't even like).

If any of these scenarios sound familiar (and if not, well done!), then know this: cutting those people out of our lives won't make us cold-hearted monsters; it'll just mean we've eliminated anyone who could potentially bring us down. That's worth doing!

Everyone is better off without negative relationships.

The benefits of positive relationships cannot be overstated. They boost your mood, help you sleep better and even reduce the risk of heart disease. As we all know, a positive attitude is contagious.

The benefits of having good friends are so great that they can change your life in many ways:

  • You're more likely to live longer if you have close friends with whom you share activities like exercise and eating out at restaurants together.

  • Having a strong social network makes you less likely to suffer from depression.

  • People who are socially isolated are more likely to develop Alzheimer's later in life.

It's important not only in business but also just as much in personal relationships that people who have negative attitudes should take time off from their lives because these types of people will only bring down everyone else around them with their negativity when instead we should be building each other up so that everyone has an opportunity for success!

Accept that some people aren’t meant to be in your life forever.

Some people will be in your life, but they may not be meant to stay forever. Some friendships and relationships have a beginning and an end, and you should accept that this is the way it is. Don’t try to force something that wasn’t meant to happen in the first place.

You shouldn’t feel guilty discarding toxic friendships.

You shouldn’t feel guilty discarding toxic friendships.

  • When you are struggling with difficult people in your life, it can be tempting to try to keep the relationship going for as long as possible. Sometimes, this is because we are afraid of what will happen if we do let them go or get rid of them completely. We worry about how they might react, what they might say about us and what might happen if we don’t have them around anymore. However, it’s important to remember that sometimes there are some relationships that really aren’t worth saving. In fact, there may even be times when it makes sense to cut these people out entirely even though they mean well—and sometimes even because they mean well!

It’s better to move on sooner rather than later.

It’s better to move on sooner rather than later.

This is because waiting for someone else can be exhausting and frustrating. Sometimes we think we are waiting for them because they need time, but really we are just feeling too uncomfortable with ourselves to take the first step forward. It may also mean that you’ve been trying too hard to win over someone who isn’t willing or able to invest in a relationship with you (or vice versa).

When it comes down to it, there is only one person who can make a decision about whether or not this relationship is worth pursuing: you! If your gut instinct tells you that the relationship isn't working for you anymore, trust yourself enough not to wait endlessly for signs from other people about how long they should take before leaving themselves—because nothing ever changes by itself anyway!

Don't hesitate to cut the toxic people out of your life, no matter how hard it may seem at first.

As a general rule, it's best to not share your personal business with anyone who makes you feel small or worthless. If someone is willing to judge you for things that don't matter, they probably won't hesitate to do other things that are just as harmful. Don't let yourself be manipulated or taken advantage of by toxic relationships—it's better to end them now than spend years trying (and failing) to change their behavior.

A good way of thinking about this is: "What kind of people would I like my kids not to become?" If the answer isn't "The kind who treat others like crap," then consider why you're tolerating it yourself and make the necessary changes!

It’s about being aware of your own feelings and how people in your life make you feel.

The key to knowing if a relationship is right for you is being aware of your own feelings. You have to be able to recognize when something isn’t working and be honest with yourself about it. You also need to be willing to communicate these feelings with the other person, even if they don't want to hear them or don't understand where you're coming from.

If someone's behavior is making it hard for you feel good about yourself, then there's no point in staying in that relationship—you have so much more potential than that!

If someone is always criticizing you and putting you down in some way, it’s not a healthy relationship for you.

Criticism can be constructive, but it should always be given with love. Criticism should never be used as a weapon against another person. If you are criticized in front of others and/or harshly, there is something wrong with the relationship you have with this person.

You may need to walk away from that relationship if it does not change for the better as soon as possible; otherwise, your self-esteem will continue to suffer.

If it doesn’t work out and moving on feels right for both of you, then let it go and move on with grace.

If things don't work out and moving on feels right for both of you, then let it go and move on with grace. Don't feel bad about letting go; don't be afraid to move on; don't hold onto something that is not working. If a relationship just isn't working out, let it go without guilt or remorse. It's good to remember that even though getting over a break-up can be hard, sometimes it's the best thing you can do for yourself and the other person involved.

You deserve loving relationships - end anything that does not fit that description

You deserve to be in loving and supportive relationships. The best relationships are those that you can trust, rely on, and feel completely yourself around. If you are not getting these things from your relationship with someone, it’s time to end it.


The bottom line is that being in some relationships isn’t worth it. If you have to weigh whether or not the relationship is worth your time, it probably isn’t. The best thing you can do for yourself is to eliminate these toxic people from your life so that you can focus on doing what makes you happy and finding new friends who will lift you up instead of bring you down.


Things To Remember On The Road To A Happy Life.

Saturday, September 10, 2022

On The Road To A Happy Life.

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The road to happiness will cause you to outgrow many people and things along the way and that's ok.

 The road to happiness will cause you to outgrow many people and things along the way and that's ok.

Recycle all that pain and turn it into positivity.

Recycle all that pain and turn it into positivity. 

Moving on can be a powerful gift on the road to happiness.

 Moving on can be a powerful gift on the road to happiness.

 It doesn't matter if they see your worth, do you see your worth? That is the question you need to ask yourself. 

Things To Remember On The Road To A Happy Life. 

People in life who seem to get angrier the happier you become are the worst. Remove them from your life before its too late.  

2020 vibe.

Protect your light. 

Things To Remember On The Road To A Happy Life.
Stop fighting for the wrong things!

On The Road To A Happy Life.

The journey will take all that you have!

Things To Remember On The Road To A Happy Life.

That first test is always no joke!

working on your mental health

Tuesday, September 6, 2022

the importance of mental health



the importance of mental health


When you're working on your mental health, it's tempting to compare yourself to other people and their achievements. But that's not fair on anybody. The truth is that everybody's journey through life is different, so it makes sense for everyone to take a different path when it comes to mental health treatment—and that includes you.

you're allowed to take a break.

In a world where we are constantly told to be productive and to keep going, it can be easy to forget that taking breaks are important too. If you spend all your time trying to achieve everything on your list, you'll never get anything done! Sometimes it's better to just sit back and relax.

In fact, if you don't take enough breaks in life (assuming they're not detrimental or destructive), then you might end up feeling resentful towards the things that once used to bring you joy. This is because when we're constantly striving for something bigger than ourselves, our lives become about getting there rather than living here.

And even if what we're doing isn't making us happy or healthy—or even successful—it might not matter so long as we keep moving forward with our plans regardless of what happens along the way!

take your time.

Taking care of your mental health is important, but it can feel overwhelming to try to make big changes at once.

Try starting with small steps that are manageable and build up over time. You may want to focus on one thing at a time or several things at once, depending on how you're feeling. You'll probably find that as you make progress, you'll be able to tackle other things as well!

Some ideas include:

  • Taking some time each day just for yourself (for example, reading a book).

  • Doing something creative (like painting or drawing).

  • Practicing mindfulness through yoga or meditation

you're doing the best you can, and that's enough.

It’s true: You’re not perfect. No one is. But that doesn't mean you should beat yourself up for not being able to do everything you want to do, all the time, flawlessly. The fact of the matter is that you might never be able to do everything you want to in your life — but that's okay! Because perfection isn't what we're chasing after anyway; it's happiness and peace and mental well being that we should be striving for instead.

So stop comparing yourself with other people and their seemingly perfect lives (because even if they look like they have it easy from where you are now, chances are there are some things about them and their lives that aren't so great), and start accepting your own limitations instead. You're doing the best that anyone can ask for under the circumstances — including yourself!

don't feel guilty for being human.

One of the most pervasive and destructive messages that we hear from our culture is that we are not allowed to be human. We are told that if we feel tired, sad, or angry, then we need to buck up and just keep going. We're supposed to be perfect at all times. After all, robots don't get tired or sad! Robots never take a break! So why should you?

It's time for this thinking to stop. You're allowed as much time off as you need—and even more than that! Do nothing for hours on end if it feels good; eat junk food in bulk when the mood strikes (after all: nothing says "I'm human" quite like an Oreo cookie). You deserve it!

be patient with yourself.

The key here is to remember that you are human. You have done the best you could with the information and resources available to you. And while it may seem like you made all of these mistakes on your own, in reality there was only so much that you could do.

When we are trying new things, we often forget that everyone makes mistakes along the way—even people who are experts at what they do. It's okay! You will get through this difficult time in your life and move on from it stronger than ever before.

Although a large part of recovery from mental illness involves taking actions to improve yourself and your life, there is also an important emotional component as well—and this emotional aspect is sometimes harder for people with mental health issues because many sufferers feel as though they aren't able to trust themselves due their condition.

don't compare your beginning to anybody's else's.

Don't compare your beginning to anybody else's middle.

Don't compare your middle to anybody else's end.

Don't compare your end to anybody else's beginning.

change takes time.

Change is a process. It doesn't happen overnight, and it doesn't happen to anyone but you. You may feel like things are changing for the better on a daily basis, and that's great! But don't expect them to change overnight or even at all.

Don't compare yourself to other people either. You can be your own worst enemy if you start comparing yourself unfavorably with others: their successes, their failures, their accomplishments and so on. Then again, if you're comparing yourself favorably...well then maybe it's time for some self-reflection!

The point here is that we are all unique individuals working through our own struggles in life; this process takes time and patience."

your mental health matters too.

Your mental health will always be just as important as your physical health. You can’t be healthy without being mentally healthy, so why would you put anything else above it? Your mental health plays an integral role in every aspect of your life:

Being happy: If you don’t have a positive outlook on life, it will be very difficult to make progress or achieve success. Don’t let negative thoughts keep you from reaching your goals!

Productivity: When we are feeling down, we are less likely to accomplish what needs to get done during the day. This can lead us down a slippery slope of procrastination and general laziness that makes everything harder for everyone involved.

The power of positivity: Positivity is contagious! People want to be around people who make them feel good about themselves—and there's no reason not to be the one spreading happiness around yourself!


We live in a world where people are constantly telling us to be happy. We're told that we should always be smiling, and that happiness is the most important thing in life. It's easy to get caught up in this idea that being miserable isn't good enough for us anymore - but the truth is, our mental health matters too. This post was written for those who need help getting started on their journey towards better mental health. Hopefully these tips will help make things easier for you along the way!

Forget your past, forgive yourself

Saturday, July 30, 2022


Forget your past, forgive yourself


Forget your past, forgive yourself


We all make mistakes. We've all failed at something, or worse, hurt someone we love. But how do you move on from this? How do you forgive yourself and let go of the past so that you can live a happy life now?

How Do You Forgive Yourself?

What are some ways that you can forgive yourself?

First, it's important to understand that you can't change the past. What has happened already has happened and there's nothing anyone can do about it now. It is what it is, so don't beat yourself up for things that are out of your control. Instead, take accountability for how you respond to a difficult situation or experience and make sure that next time around, when faced with a similar situation or experience, you will handle it better than before.

Second, learn from your mistakes so they don’t happen again! Remember this quote: “Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it” – George Santayana (1863-1952). Think through how decisions were made in the past and consider whether there were other options available at the time but just weren't explored due to fear or uncertainty surrounding those options' potential outcomes; if this is true then look at how these new options would have changed things for everyone involved...and more importantly for yourself too!

Forgive Others

Forgiveness is a choice, not an obligation. Forgiveness does not mean forgetting. It does not mean condoning the behavior of another. It does not mean allowing someone to hurt you again or letting them off the hook for their actions. Forgiveness means accepting what happened in your life and moving on from it—not because you have to, but because you want to allow yourself peace and happiness. And that feeling of peace and happiness can be yours every day if you choose it!

Stop Worrying About What Other People Are Thinking

Stop worrying about what other people are thinking.

It's okay to care about your friends and family's opinions, but not everyone else. The only thing that really matters when it comes to others' opinions is whether they accept you as you are—and even then, they don't have to be happy with how things turned out in your life. Most of the time, they probably aren't even thinking about you at all!

Stop worrying about what other people are doing.

You can't control what anyone else does or how they live their lives; you only have control over yourself and your own actions. If someone else isn't making the choices that make them happy, it doesn't affect you if those choices involve alcohol or drugs, or staying up late playing video games instead of going to bed early because they're tired (like yours do). All this will do is make it harder for these people who aren't doing anything interesting from seeing any good movies because no one wants to go see them play video games all night long either... so maybe just let them play? It'll be fun for both of us!

Don't Compare Yourself To Anyone Else

The problem is that when we see others doing well, it's easy to look for reasons why we're not. You might think, "My friend got promoted at work and I didn't." Or: "That guy looks great in his new car!" But if you want to be happy, avoiding comparison is essential.

It's important to note here that the comparison doesn't have to be specific or intentional—it can just happen automatically. There are many ways in which this happens: comparing your accomplishments with those of others; comparing your body type with theirs; comparing how much time you spend with friends and family members versus other people (or the lack thereof). If a person has a better job than yours or makes more money than yours, then they're probably living a better life overall than yours—but why? Because they chose different priorities over time? Because they worked harder than you did?

Don't beat yourself up over what other people have chosen for themselves!

Stop Expecting Perfection From Yourself

You are not perfect. You are human. You are unique, imperfect and a work in progress, just like everyone else on this planet. You are not alone.

This is great news because it means you can stop expecting perfection from yourself! When we expect perfection from ourselves, we always fall short of it and feel disappointed with our own performance or abilities, which leads to low self-esteem and self-worth. But when we accept that no one is perfect—even yourself—we're more likely to have healthy relationships with others and feel good about who we are right now instead of waiting for some imaginary future version of ourselves to show up at some point down the road when everything will finally be "perfect".

Own Your Mistakes And Move On

It's time to own up to your mistakes and move on. You are not perfect, and you never will be. So stop trying to be someone else's idea of someone who is perfect. You are human, and as such, you will make mistakes. It's inevitable! The only thing we can really control is how we react to what happens in our lives—and that applies whether you're facing an error or a failure (or both).

The best way forward is forgiveness: forgive yourself for making a mistake or failing at something; forgive others for not being perfect themselves; forgive life itself for sometimes being hard or unfair. Let go of the past so that you can truly live in the present moment—which also means accepting whatever situation has put you here in this point in time, whether good or bad (and yes, even if it's both!).

If there's anything I've learned from taking risks (aka getting hurt), it's that growth doesn't happen unless we allow ourselves room outside our comfort zone--if nothing else than by simply admitting where our boundaries lie!

Learn To Let Go Of Things You Can't Control

The first step to letting go of the past is being able to identify what exactly is dragging you down. Is it a specific event or situation that happened in your life? A mistake you made?

Maybe it's something more abstract, like the fact that you feel like you're not living up to your potential. Whatever it is, try to name it—this will help make moving forward easier because once you admit what's holding you back, recognizing that energy in yourself and around others becomes easier.

Once we've identified our own self-destructive patterns and ways of thinking, we can start realizing how they keep us stuck in our own heads. When we worry about things outside of our control (like other people), we're wasting time on something that doesn't serve us in any way—and yet we do this all day long!

You can move on and live a happy life now.

The point of this article is to remind you that the past is over and done with. You can't change it, but you can control your future.

You can't control other people, but you can control yourself. You are in charge of your own actions and reactions.

You have a choice: if someone hurts or wrongs you, do they get to keep hurting or wronging others? Or will their actions serve as an example for what not to do? The choice has already been made by many people who've gone before us—they chose forgiveness instead of resentment and revenge because they realized those things only hurt them more than anyone else!

But despite all that knowledge, we still find ourselves struggling sometimes not just with forgiving others but even forgiving ourselves...


If you’re struggling with forgiving yourself, then you may feel like there is no hope. But that’s not the case! You are not alone, and it is possible to forgive yourself. The first step is admitting that there is a problem that needs fixing. Next, understand what forgiveness means and why it's important in your life today; without this understanding, your journey toward self-forgiveness will be much more difficult than necessary. Once you've taken these steps toward self-forgiveness—or if they're still ahead of you—then start working on moving forward with your life: forget about what happened in the past and focus on creating something new for yourself instead!


10 things to do when people betray you.

Monday, July 11, 2022

10 things to do when people betray you.

10 things to do when people betray you.


It's easy to be bitter after someone has hurt you. But you don't have to sit on that resentment and let it affect your life for years. Here are some ideas for coping with betrayal, as well as tips for moving forward in a healthy way:

The 4 don'ts.

  • Don't let people make you bitter.

  • Don't let people make you lose faith in people.

  • Don't let people make you lose faith in yourself.

  • Don't let people make you lose faith in the world, or even if they do, don't wallow there for too long; get your butt back out there and find something new to believe in!

It's ok to feel angry about betrayal, but

  • It's ok to feel angry about betrayal.

  • Anger is a normal feeling that connects you with your feelings. It can help motivate you to do something about the situation or change yourself so that you're less vulnerable to being betrayed again in the future.

  • When anger is directed at the wrong person or situation, however, it can turn out badly for everyone involved—especially when it turns into aggression toward others or yourself (e.g., punching walls). In these cases, anger management is essential for keeping your life under control so that there are no negative consequences from expressing this emotion.[1]

Try to take a step back.

It is easy to get caught up in the moment and forget about the big picture. When you are dealing with a betrayal, it is important not to lose sight of what you stand for. By taking a step back, you can gain some much-needed perspective on the situation.

It's also important to keep in mind that there might be more going on than meets the eye; asking questions and seeking out answers will help you better understand why someone may have acted in this way. Try thinking about their motivation or intentions behind their actions; often times these can help explain their behavior more clearly than simply pointing fingers at them would allow

Write down your thoughts and feelings.

When you're going through a traumatic event, it can feel like your mind is constantly running at full speed. You may have a hard time slowing down to think rationally about what's happening and how you feel. Writing down your thoughts and feelings can help you get them out of your head so they're not constantly running in circles. It can also help you see that many people have been through similar experiences and have come out on the other side stronger than before. Remembering that there are others who've dealt with betrayal or rejection can be very reassuring in times of distress.

Bring in outside perspective.

When you're dealing with betrayal, it's important to surround yourself with people who are on your side. Bring in outside perspective by getting help from a therapist or counselor, asking for advice from a friend or family member, reading books about the topic, and talking to someone who has been through similar situations.

Forgive, but don't forget.

Forgiveness is not forgetting.

Forgiveness can be a good way to move forward with your life, but it doesn't require you to have a relationship with the person who betrayed you. In other words, forgiveness is not the same thing as reconciliation. You can forgive someone and still feel angry at them in private moments. Forgiveness is an act of self-care that allows us to let go of our anger and focus instead on moving forward in our lives without wasting energy on old pain or grudges.

Remember that the past is over, and the present matters most.

  • Focus on the present.

  • Focus on the future?

  • Focus on what you can control, instead of what people have done in the past or are doing now.

  • Make a list of all the things that make you feel good about yourself, then go do them! You have control over your happiness, and no one else does. Remember that sometimes when people betray us it's because they don't know how to help themselves—that doesn't mean they aren't worth our time or friendship!

Remember it's about you, not them.

When someone betrays you, it's natural to feel angry and hurt. But if you really want to move past the betrayal, stop focusing on them and start focusing on yourself.

  • Don't get caught up in thinking about how the other person feels. It doesn't matter if your friend betrayed you because she thought she was doing what was best for both of you, or if your partner betrayed you because he felt trapped by his job or family obligations. What matters is that they did something that hurt YOU—and it's far more important to spend time figuring out how YOU feel than trying to figure out why they did what they did.

  • Don't try to understand why someone would betray your trust or break their word—you simply can't know everything about another person's inner life (or even their outer one). And even if there are explanations for their behavior that make sense from a logical perspective, those explanations won’t change the way betrayal makes us feel: angry, upset and wounded by this violation of our trust in them

Distance yourself from the person who hurt you -- at least for a while.

One of the hardest parts of being betrayed is the desire to speak with the person who hurt you. You may want to confront them, explain why their actions were hurtful, or just get closure so that you can move on. But this is not a good idea while you are still feeling vulnerable and hurt. Even when someone apologizes profusely for their behavior, it's tempting to accept their apology because we want everything to go back to normal between us again. However, if we do this too soon after being betrayed by someone close to us (especially if there has been no apology), it may mean that we're giving up our power over how we feel about what happened and giving control back over our emotions back over them again -- which isn't healthy for either party involved in such situations! So instead of talking things through with them directly yet (or even after some time has passed) try talking about your feelings with another trusted friend or relative who will give advice without taking sides; alternatively seek professional help if necessary so that these conversations don't become overwhelming - especially at first while still processing all emotions involved."

Be open with your feelings if you're comfortable to do so.

  • In an ideal world, you'd be able to tell the person who betrayed you exactly how you feel, and they would apologize sincerely. Unfortunately, this is rarely the case.

  • Instead of bottling up your feelings, express them as soon as possible—even if it's only to yourself or a trusted friend. Talking about what happened can help you heal faster because venting anger and frustration is healthy for the body and mind.

  • Don't be afraid to ask for help from others in the aftermath of betrayal either; don't let shame prevent that from happening! Ultimately it's okay if someone else knows that something hurtful happened between the two of you—they'll be there for support when needed most

This is also a good time to reach out to other people who've been through similar situations before and see how they handled things.

This is also a good time to reach out to other people who've been through similar situations before and see how they handled things. They can be a great resource for you as you begin to process what happened and how you want to move forward.

You can recover from difficult situations by working on yourself first, then looking at ways to interact with others again.

Recovering from betrayal is a process. It takes time, and it's not something that you can ignore or forget about until it goes away on its own. But if you know what to do, recovery can be much easier than you think.

First, you have to work on yourself first. Forgive yourself for being vulnerable in the first place and forgive yourself for letting the other person hurt you so badly. Understand that everyone makes mistakes and everyone has flaws—yours included—and then try not to make the same mistake again by treating others with respect in order not to get hurt again as well as setting boundaries around your personal space so no one tries anything funny with your heart again!


It's important to remember that betrayal is a personal thing and can be felt in different ways by different people. The best way to handle the situation is by taking care of yourself, letting go of the past, and focusing on moving forward with life. You deserve happiness and will find it when you find yourself again.


Never abuse someone's trust.


Never abuse someone's trust.

never abuse someone's trust.


I've always believed that trust is a fragile thing, and that we need to treat it with utmost care. I believe that you should never abuse someone's trust no matter what.

Do not take advantage of a person.

  • Do not take advantage of a person's vulnerability.

  • Do not take advantage of a person's trust.

  • Do not take advantage of a person's kindness.

  • Do not take advantage of a person's generosity.

  • Don't use anyone's good nature against them or make someone feel bad about themselves because they have helped you in some way before, no matter how small that help may be - it still counts!

Don't violate the sacred bond of trust.

You can do this by being trustworthy and keeping your word. When you promise to do something, follow through. If you tell someone something in confidence, don’t share that information with anyone else. It takes a lot of trust for people to open up with each other; so when they do that with you, acknowledge it and honor their trust by being trustworthy yourself.

Be mindful of the sacred bond of trust that exists between friends, family members and coworkers. Don’t violate another person's trust in an effort to gain or maintain power over them—it'll only backfire on you in the long run


These are all important points to keep in mind when you're working with a client, whether you're an agency or freelancer. As a freelancer, it's easy to get caught up in the moment and forget that your job is ultimately to serve the client by providing them with quality work and service. But we hope these guidelines will help ensure that everyone has a good experience working together—and that you never abuse anyone's trust again!


Are you happy?

Friday, July 8, 2022


Are you happy?
Are you happy?


Happiness is an elusive feeling, but it can be found when we are living the way that makes us happy. We all want to feel happy, but it's a matter of identifying what makes you happy. If you don't know what makes you happy, take time to figure that out before moving on to other things in your life. The goal isn’t just being happier, but also taking action and doing things that make you happy every day—even if they're small things.

What are our expectations?

Are you happy?

The answer to this question depends on who you ask. If it's yourself, then "sure" or "I guess" might be your response. But if it's someone else asking—maybe a friend or colleague—you might hesitate before answering honestly. Because what seems like a simple question is actually very complicated: What do they mean by happy? Is there such thing as happiness? And if so, why is it so elusive? The truth is that happiness exists within the context of our expectations and those of society at large.

When psychologists talk about people's expectations, they aren't referring simply to what we want but rather how we think things should turn out based on past experiences and cultural narratives about success (or failure). When these expectations are met (or exceeded), we feel good; when they aren't met (or exceeded), we feel bad—and this feeling will affect both your behavior and your emotional well-being over time.

How could you ever be satisfied with what you have?

It's easy to get caught up in what we don't have. The grass is always greener on the other side, and you can't miss what you never had.

But this is where I say that we need to be happy with what we have, because if you're not happy with it, then why would anyone else be? We are all human beings trying to live our best lives. Why not try your best at doing just that?

Contentment and happiness go hand-in-hand.

Happiness is a state of mind, not a destination. That’s what I believe; that is the essence of my life philosophy.

As you may know, I am a very happy person. I have my ups and downs like everyone else but overall, I am happy with life and how it has turned out for me. However, it wasn’t always this way!

I used to think happiness was something you could achieve if only you had enough money or enough time or enough good things happening in your life."

Is it everyone else's fault that you are unhappy, or could some things change?

Is it everyone else's fault that you are unhappy, or could some things change?

If the answer is the latter, consider these questions:

  • How do I act? Am I pleasant and kind to others? Or am I quick to anger and easily annoyed?

  • What are my expectations of myself and others? Am I always doing more than my fair share of work (even though it's not necessary)? Do I expect perfect behavior from those around me (and then get upset when they don't live up to my expectations)?

  • How do my thoughts affect my attitude about life in general and other people in particular. Have I allowed myself to think negative thoughts about other people without questioning their validity - even when these thoughts might not be true at all?

Are all of your relationships healthy?

The relationships you have with those around you are crucial to your happiness. Your friends, family, and significant others provide an outlet for conversation, fun activities, support and encouragement. On the other hand, they can also be a source of stress and pain if they are toxic in any way.

The people who surround you on a day-to-day basis can affect how happy or unhappy you feel on any given day. If there is conflict between these individuals (or those who hold some sort of power over them), it may be affecting how well everyone performs at work or school as well as their overall moods when spending time together outside of those places where they interact regularly

If a key relationship ends, is that the end of happiness for you?

So what if you lose the people around you? You don't need them to be happy. You can be happy without them, and you can also be happy in their presence. If a key relationship ends, is that the end of your happiness? No. Maybe it will take some time to feel comfortable with yourself again (and maybe even longer than expected), but there is no reason why being single has to make you unhappy forever.

You could find that being alone gives you more time for self-reflection, introspection and maybe even self-improvement—which might lead to personal growth and greater happiness later on down the line anyway! It's worth noting here that even if someone does come along later on down the line who loves spending time with us just as much as we love spending time with them: we still need some quiet alone time once in awhile too... so let's not forget about those times either :)

Are you ready to get out of your comfort zone or live life within the boundaries that hold you back from happiness.

The first step to getting out of your comfort zone is taking that first step. I know it’s scary, but you can do it. You have to stop being afraid of failing or what others will think about you if they see who you really are. I know we all like to be liked and accepted by others, but sometimes it’s better for us as individuals if we don’t conform and fit into the mold of what everyone else thinks we should be like.

We need more people willing to show their true selves without fear or embarrassment for who they truly are inside, so go ahead and take that leap! You won't regret it!

Realize what makes you happy and what doesn’t, and then do the things that make you happy.

Realize what makes you happy and what doesn’t, and then do the things that make you happy.

Start by making a list of what makes you happy, and then make a list of things that don’t make you happy. Then cross out the ones in the second list that can be eliminated from your life, or at least minimized. Do this until there are no more items left in either list—then keep doing it!

Stop waiting for happiness! Do not postpone your happiness for some future date because life is short, unpredictable and uncertain.

What happens when you put off happiness? Nothing good. Studies show that the more we delay our happiness, the longer it takes to achieve and the more painful it becomes. We often put off happiness because we want to be certain of achieving it before we act; however, this can lead to unhealthy behaviors like compulsive thinking and feeling guilty about your past decisions. It's important to remember that no one is perfect; everyone makes mistakes! If you've made a mistake in your life but have tried everything in your power to fix it, then don't beat yourself up over it! Instead, learn from the experience so that you won't repeat past mistakes again later on down the road.

Happiness comes from taking action and doing things that make us happy and doing them often.

Happiness is a choice. It’s not something that happens spontaneously, but rather it is something we create through our own actions. Happiness isn’t some faraway place where you have to go and live; it’s right here in your life, waiting for you to recognize it and take action!

Happiness is an important part of being healthy, as well as having a positive outlook on life. The more you focus on being happy, the easier it will be for this state of mind to occur naturally under all circumstances. While there are certain things that can make us happy (such as having friends or family), the most important factor contributing towards our joyfulness is ourselves - our attitudes towards life and all its challenges can help us achieve what we desire most out of existence: peace of mind!


If you have a hard time finding happiness in life, then it may be time to take a look at what is holding you back. It could be that your expectations are too high or unrealistic or that you aren’t taking action towards achieving those goals. Happiness comes from taking action and doing things that make us happy and doing them often.



Being Too Nice

Wednesday, June 29, 2022

Being Too Nice

Being Too Nice


I used to think that being nice was the best way to be. Be polite and accommodating, people will like you. Take their feelings into consideration and you'll get a lot of genuine affection in return. But the truth is, it doesn't matter if anyone likes you or not. What matters is how you feel about yourself, and having an inflated sense of self-worth because other people are always telling you how great you are! That's why I've become more selfish over the years and even a little bit mean. Below are some bits of advice that got me started on my journey toward being less nice, so read on if that sounds like something that would improve your life:

It's always better to be honest than to be nice right?

You've probably heard this phrase before, and it's usually leveled at someone who hurts your feelings by being brutally honest. But what if I told you that not being nice is a sign of maturity? What if I told you that being nice makes you less likely to have a good time in life? That would sound pretty drastic, right? Well, here's the thing: it isn't. In fact, if anything at all can help us grow up faster and create more meaningful relationships with those around us, it's learning when not to be so damn agreeable all the time.

Your feelings will always matter more than anyone else's feelings.

Your feelings are your own, and no one has a right to tell you what to do with them. You get to decide if and when you share your feelings with someone else. It doesn't matter how many times you hear someone say that their opinion or need is more important than yours—they're not. Your needs are more important than anyone else's needs or opinions.

It may sound harsh, but the truth is that no one cares about your feelings as much as you do, so it's up to you to be sure that they're taken care of properly and thoroughly.

You have no obligation to help anyone, even if you can.

You are not a therapist, life coach, priest, social worker, lawyer, doctor or parent. You don't have to help everyone who asks for your time. You can say no when people ask you for favors because they're too nice to say it themselves.

You aren't required by law or morality to help every person in need that crosses your path—and neither am I! It's okay if someone else needs help more than you do right now. In fact, it might even be better if you didn't take on too much responsibility all at once and learned how to say "no" once in awhile instead of saying "yes" over and over again until there's nothing left between the two of you but an empty space where trust should be (and wasn't).

Don't let anyone make you feel bad for having doubts or second thoughts.

If you're reading this article, I can only assume that your mind is already made up about being nice. You don't need to convince yourself; you just need to know how to do it effectively. But if you're wavering in your commitment to niceness or are on the fence about being too nice in general, let me tell you something: If there's any doubt left in your mind at all, then maybe that's a good sign. It means that we have some work ahead of us!

But worry not—your doubts are normal, healthy, necessary and good. Doubts will help keep us from making bad decisions while also helping us take appropriate action when necessary: they're our friends! So don't let anyone make you feel bad for having doubts or second thoughts; instead of letting those feelings fester inside of yourself (and driving away all hope), try talking through them with someone else who understands what it means when someone says "I'm too nice."

Sometimes the best option is not the nicest one.

Sometimes, the best option is not the nicest one.

When you're too nice, you can't say no—and so you give in and take on more than you should. You may feel guilty when your friends ask for help and you can't say yes. You may put yourself last because it's easier to do things for others instead of asking them to reciprocate. And while being kind and helpful can have a positive impact on those around us, sometimes doing the right thing means saying no or speaking up even if it isn't what people want to hear from us. In this case, being nice doesn’t mean being passive or avoiding conflict; rather than going along with what others want or expect from us without question—or trying to give them what we think they want without asking them first—we should be honest about our own preferences and needs regardless of how others might react (which brings me back around to my earlier point about assertiveness).

People come and go but your peace of mind is permanent

  • People come and go, but your peace of mind is permanent.

  • You can’t control how other people feel, but you can control how you feel. And that’s all that matters! If someone is having a bad day because they lost something or were cut off in traffic, it has nothing to do with you—or with anyone else for that matter. Your reaction will have an impact on both of you though: if you get upset too easily or take things personally, then maybe this person won’t want to talk to you anymore…and then where would be?

  • People come and go but your peace of mind is permanent. You need to understand this so that when someone acts out towards us we don't take it personally or give up our own sense of self-worth because someone else decided not be around today (or ever).


I know that the world is hard and it's only getting harder. All we can do is be as kind to ourselves and each other as possible. The one thing I always try to remember is that people come into our lives for a reason, and sometimes they leave for a better season.


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Why is self love so significant?

Wednesday, February 2, 2022

Why Is Self Love Important?

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Why is self love so significant? 

This is most frequently asked question. We are living in a world where we have unrealistic body and beauty standards for everyone, female and male. Having the perfect body and skin is a dream of every person, especially in teenagers. 

During our teen years we tend to deal with poor body image have low self-esteem and it can lead to poor mental health and we tend to grow up carrying that poor mental health well into adulthood.

We have to keep in mind that nobody can love us more than we love ourselves. If you are not into you, then nobody else will be. So, no matter what you do, love yourself and who you are. 

Self-love is crucial for your well-being and mental health. It is the perfect way to prevent anxiety and depression.

For many people, self-love is a luxury instead of necessity. While there are some people who consider it a fad for people with plenty of free time.

When we are hard on ourselves, we are doing it because we want to do everything the right way all the time. It requires a lot of self-criticisms and an inner voice guiding our every move. According to studies, people who are perfectionists are more prone to develop a serious health condition that can be both, mental and physical. The only way to get rid of this is by self-love.

In this article, I have highlighted the significance of self-love. Have a look!

Enhance Your Performance and Reduce Stress

Let’s face it, there is no better way to improve your performance than self-love. When you love who you are, you will be able to decrease stress and lower procrastination. This is a great way to get rid of performance anxiety near deadlines. When you will not have last minute doubts in yourself, you will be able to finish your work with all your energy. You might not be wasting your time and delaying the project. Success is self-love.

Good Mental Health

When you have made peace with who you are and love yourself, you may decrease the risk of being mentally unstable. With the help of self-love, you can protect yourself from going down the path of negativity and getting lost. Experts suggest people suffering from mental health issues must develop a positive relationship with themselves. This is the only way to help them get out of their condition.

A Satisfied Life

There is no surprise, people who love themselves are more satisfied with their life. When you have self-esteem, you will know you are accomplishing the goal of your life. This will enable you to enjoy your life and have a positive attitude towards the future.

In conclusion, self-love is the most crucial thing you need in life if you want to have a happy and satisfied life. No one can keep you happy except yourself. If you want to stay motivated or inspired, take a look at Many Motivational Quotes for an everyday motivational quote.



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