Fall Quotes.

Fall Quotes.

Saturday, September 11, 2021

  Fall Quotes, Deep Inspirational Quotes About Life, Love, And Happiness.

When you have made peace with who you are and love yourself, you may decrease the risk of being mentally unstable. With the help of self-love, you can protect yourself from going down the path of negativity and getting lost. Experts suggest people suffering from mental health issues must develop a positive relationship with themselves. This is the only way to help them get out of their condition.

 Remaining in an unhealthy relationship is not the reason you where put on this earth! You don't deserve to be in an unhealthy relationship and you owe it to yourself to know that you deserve so much more than that in life.

 Find comfort in yourself and take the time that you need to learn to love yourself more effectively. it's the only way to not only be happier in life but to finally be able to love other people in the correct manner without any type of negativity being able to corrupt it.

 If you feel more alone within the relationship than you would if you were alone do yourself a favor, just let it go. That relationship was never meant for you and holding onto it only stops the many good things coming to you in the future. 

Why hold onto a broken relationship when you can have a whole one?

 Some people really need to grow up before they find themselves tricking people into loving them...

 Continue to work on yourself and shift your focus from the failures that you have had in life and start looking at them as lessons that life has taught you and LEARN then well. No matter how difficult it may seem, continuous growth will always be the better option.

 Falling in love with potential has a 99% chance of you and the relationship hitting the floor. Do yourself and the relationship a favor and fall in love with WHO THEY ARE and not WHO THEY MIGHT BE at some point in the future.

Just because they do not understand your pain does not mean they get to invalidate it.

if they overstep its up to you to back them up!

Set and own your boundaries ALWAYS!

Self love must be the priority when it comes to setting boundaries.

 

tis the season!

Find your self-love.

The Importance of Focusing On Yourself

The Importance of Focusing On Yourself

Sunday, August 22, 2021

 The Importance of Focusing On Yourself

Life can get busy. You might find yourself surrounded by other people who require your time and effort. However, it is important that you also focus on yourself if you want to live a truly fulfilling life. There is no denying that you are important. It is about time that you treated yourself with more importance by focusing on yourself. It is essential to leading the life that you have always wanted. The followings reasons will help you understand why you need to focus on yourself.

1. Helps You Accomplish Your Goals

When you focus on others, it prevents you from reaching your goals. If you want to accomplish more in life, you need to start focusing on yourself. Putting others first every time affects your ability to achieve what you desire. Although it is important to maintain a relationship with other people, it does not mean that you should not spend any time on your own. You need to find a balance to make things work.

2. Being Single Can Be Fun

Another reason why you need to start focusing on yourself is that it can be fun. When you take a break away from your relationship or others, you get to make the most of your single years. Since you would not need to worry about anyone else for a change, you get to do your own thing. Thus, it can be pretty fun when you think of it.

3. Find the Time to Figure Things Out

If you have been putting things on hold trying to make time for others, you will finally be able to make time for yourself to figure things out for the better. If you do not have time to sit down and reflect at the end of the week, you are likely to feel displaced and outright overwhelmed. You cannot keep putting things on hold. Instead, you need to make the time to work through it for much-needed relief.

4. Ensures Your Emotions Are In-Check

Emotional stability is of paramount importance. When you focus on yourself, you get to boost your emotional stability. It could be anything, from watching the latest Netflix series to going for a walk along the beach. Anything that helps you relax on your own and lets you breathe for a change is just what you need.

5. Improves Your Relationships with Others

When you focus on yourself, you also get to improve your relationship with others. By finding out what you truly want in life, you become more satisfied with life and spend time with friends more positively.  

6. Find Happiness

Finally, focusing on yourself helps you find happiness in ways that you might have never even thought about. You will get to discover things that you did not even know about yourself which makes life worth living.

Conclusion

Once you have read the entire post, you will understand just how important it is to focus on yourself. From helping you accomplish goals to finding happiness, focusing on yourself allows you to find greater meaning in life. 

The happiness handbook.

Monday, August 16, 2021

 

The Happiness Handbook.

A collection of quotes that deal with how to travel the world all while striving for your happiness and keeping it intact while you walk.

Your life journey will most likely be hard, there will be many ups and downs, some days will feel like a downright tragedy, but that doesn't mean that this world just gets to take away your happiness, do you know why? Because you aren't going to let it no matter what now are you?

 

 

Remembering To Always Love (You).

Thursday, July 29, 2021

 

 

 

Remembering To Always Love (You).

Loving yourself is something that you might come across every now and then. However, it is easy to forget to love yourself, especially when you do something wrong or things do not go according to plan. There are many of us who tend to harm ourselves and simply do not love ourselves enough. However, the importance to always love who you are cannot be stressed enough. Since you are the entire universe, you deserve your own love and affection. The following reasons will encourage you to practice self-live.

1. Put Yourself First, But Don't Be Selfish.

You have to put yourself first in every relationship. Whether you are a team member, a son, a parent, or a partner, you have to love yourself if you want to achieve what you desire. It does not matter what you might want in life. However, it is only when you truly love yourself do you allow yourself to be effective. When we love ourselves, we are likely to look after our needs. It ensures that we are able to take on every job that comes our way.

2. Become Confident

Another reason to love yourself is because it helps you become confident. When you are confident in yourself, you become confident. Knowing who you are and accepting that person is what is needed to be the best version of yourself. Now, it does not mean that you should be confident in each situation. But, you should have underlying confidence.

3. Make Life Easier

Just think about how miserable life can be when you hate yourself or have no love for yourself. When you actually love yourself, you treat yourself better and life will start to seem easier. You will stop beating up yourself over everything and thinking about how much you do not love yourself. Besides, loving yourself makes it easier to let go of things so that you can grow as a person.

4. Increased Self-Efficacy and Resilience

A person who loves themselves does not need to seek validation from others constantly.  When you stop seeking external approval from others, you become resilient. In fact, you get to take ownership over your emotions and control them instead!

5. Become Happy

If you want to be happy, you need to love yourself. It is the secret to enjoying life. When you love yourself, you will feel happy about the body you own, the skin you have, and the life you lead. Instead of harboring internal criticism at all times, you get to let go of such behavior to make way for happiness to take over your life.   

6. To Love Others

Finally, you need to love yourself if you want to love others. You might find it to be cliché. However, there is great truth behind it. By loving yourself, you open yourself up to love and people have an easier time falling in love with you.

Conclusion

Self-love is one of the best acts. It elevates your life in ways that you cannot imagine. If you want to be truly happy and satisfied with your life, you need to start loving yourself. You will see great change.

 

 

Progress

Progress

Monday, July 26, 2021

 MAKE 2021 YOUR YEAR

Focus on yourself and then go help others. You will never be able to efficiently help anyone unless you have your life together, its time for you to think about your progress in life instead of getting wrapped up in someone else's life problems. Some people will try and suck you into their life and convince you that you need to focus on them more well those types of people are just selfish people who think they deserve all of you. Well they don't

You need to make sure that you are whole before you go and try to complete somebody else. Being overly concerned with others will not allow you to progress in your life in the proper manner. Don't let people suck you into their black holes. 

 

They did you wrong.

Saturday, July 24, 2021

 

 

 They did you wrong.

Sometimes people just do us wrong, it happens, but it's not our fault that they do not know what loyalty is. So why carry all the burden of their mistake? Feeling betrayed is one thing, but to allow them to stir up your negative emotions is another. Let them go and yes, you might be alone afterward, but ask yourself this: Do you honestly need a person who would betray you and not give it a second thought in your life?

 

 

 

 

Focus on what you are building in the present

Friday, July 23, 2021

Focus on what you are building in the present

 

 

 Focus on what you are building in the present and make sure that it's sturdy and ready to withstand whatever is coming in the future. Don't look back on what was destroyed in the past, there is nothing there for you. Accept whatever happened and continue to look forward. Everything of value to you is on the journey that you are currently on! 

 Make today the day! Focus!

 

Overcoming in Life

Saturday, July 3, 2021

 Overcoming in Life

Life can become overwhelming at times. You might feel that nothing is going according to your plan. Some days seem to go on forever, while others seem like a blur. You might feel numb or nothing at all and feel everything the very next moment. The thing about life is that every day brings new hurdles and that is not necessarily a bad thing as long as you know how to look past those things. Continuous effort is needed to overcome whatever comes your way. Here is how you can make it through the worst of times.

1. Change Your Perspective

One of the most important things that you need to do if you want to overcome difficulty in life is to shift your perspective. At the end of the day, it all comes down to how you look at things. Whenever you come across something challenging, you are likely to feel overwhelmed or even negative about it. One thing can lead to another. To make sure that you remain in the right set of mind, you just have to tweak your view of things. When you change your perspective, you get to wear a completely different lens and twist away from the negativity. Never let your energy go wasted on anything that is not worth pursuing.

2. Learn From Others

Everyone goes through difficult times in life. It is what binds us together and allows us to relate with one another. Chances are that there is someone out there whom you can learn from. It will provide you with great solace knowing that someone has been through similar circumstances or even worse. Even if the person made it out unharmed, it does not make their story any less credible and worth listening to. You can look around you or check the internet as there has to be a celebrity or even a family member who has been where you are. Therefore, you can learn from their experience.

3. Always Feel Free to Ask for Help

There is just so much that you can do on your own. You should never be afraid of asking for help. Even though you might be pessimistic about seeking help from others thinking that you came into this world alone, it is always better to find support. The world has only been successful due to our interdependence on one another. Besides, there is nothing wrong with asking for some help now and then.

4. Come Up With a Solution

Instead of dwelling on your problem, you should think of a solution to put an end to it. There is a solution for just about everything, even heartbreak. No matter how tall the hill might seem, you will be able to climb it and make it out alive. It all starts with small steps. You cannot expect to reach the top without any effort and that is the fun in it.

Conclusion

Overcoming difficulties in life might seem impossible. However, everything is possible with the right mindset. By changing your perspective, learning from others, asking for help, and coming up with a solution, you get to overcome just about everything that comes your way.

 

Extremely Powerful Quotes That Will Remind You Why To Focus On What Matters To You In Life Before You Risk Being Unhappy.

Extremely Powerful Quotes That Will Remind You Why To Focus On What Matters To You In Life Before You Risk Being Unhappy.

Friday, July 2, 2021

Extremely Powerful Quotes That Will Remind You Why To Focus On What Matters To You In Life Before You Risk Being Unhappy.

Focus On What Matters.

It's time to be empowered

Expressing gratitude. 

Cultivate optimism even in a negative environment. 

Practice kindness always.

Nurture loving relationships with everyone. 

Stay committed to a meaningful life. 

Know that Relationship goals is whatever you say it is.

Know that it's ok to not only enjoy life’s little pleasures but also the big ones too.

Never leave your mental well-being in the hands of others. 

Always listen to what you want in your life and ignore what other people have to say about it. it's not their place to decide how you live. 

Love is never supposed to be a shackle. 

Create sustainable happiness and never let anything get in the way of it. You deserve the best and you have to find the will to create that! Protect you happiness at all costs if you truly want a life worth living. 

Always remember the power that self-love can bring to your life. 

You have to freedom to say yes and no! Never let anyone take your options in life away from you. NOT EVER!

Fear and insecurity cannot be allowed to keep you from your happiness, you aren't going to give them anymore power over your life.

Watch out for manipulating apologies and the people that give them.

 Courage will defend you in your time of need and hope will allow you to cut through any and all barriers that have the audacity to stand in your way.

 Don't give in to your sadness and fight back with everything you have!

 Never give depression a good enough foothold in your life to flourish.

Never let anyone step all over your boundaries.

 You deserve the happiness that you seek. 

 

 How can you build a real connection without vulnerability?

 

 

Of Sand & Waves.
 

Understanding That You Are Enough

Understanding That You Are Enough

Wednesday, June 16, 2021

 

Understanding That You Are Enough

We live in a time where we are bombarded with adverts telling us how we can be enough. We see posts on social media by celebrities and influencers that instill in our minds what it means to be enough. However, the truth is that you simply are enough. It is only when you understand that you are enough would you be able to live the best life.
 

True love stems from an acceptance of oneself and not what others perceive you as or even caring about their acceptance. When we think of our nature, there are certain things that we cannot expect to change about ourselves or should we want to change about ourselves to please others. Those things are what define you and make you beautiful. You might think to yourself that your flaws are what hold you down. However, they are the most beautiful thing about you and the only things that lift you up and make you stand out in a world full of people trying to be someone they are not.
 

When you continuously chase someone else's idea of being enough, you can sometimes lose touch of who you are. It prevents you from succeeding in life or building meaningful relationships that make life worth living. Now, it is easy to say that we understand that we are enough. However, it is something that most of us struggle with throughout our lives. It does not matter how old or young you might be, understanding that you are enough is a continuous process. It requires you to reflect on your achievements and the effort that you had put into making things work.

Profound Effect

Reflecting on being enough has a profound effect on how you look at life and the way people treat you. It prevents you from viewing yourself through the perspective of another person. Instead, you get to look within which allows you to truly accept who you are and move past expectations. The only person you need to accept yourself and tell you that you are enough is you. There is no reason for you to beat yourself up or feel unworthy. If you do not accept yourself or think that you are enough, nobody else will. It all starts with you as you are the only universe that needs exploring.  
 

Real love begins on the inside. How can you expect to give love when you do not love yourself? You need to love yourself if you want to make your life better. When you constantly tell yourself that you are not enough, you let others know that you are not enough and that they should not fully accept you. Therefore, you must stop looking at yourself so critically and be more compassionate towards yourself.

Conclusion

The only takeaway that you need to take from our post is that you are enough the way you are and that you have always been enough. Nobody can tell you otherwise. If they bring you down, their company is not worth pursuing. 

Quotes About Staying Strong.

Quotes About Staying Strong.

Friday, June 4, 2021

 

The Importance of Staying Strong

Life is not rainbows or unicorns

Things do not always go according to plan and that is perfectly fine. If you feel that you lose hope or feel angry everything something goes wrong, you need to learn to stay strong. It does not rain all the time and things will get better eventually. However, you cannot let the tough times break you down. Instead, you need to stay strong and be resilient.

Avoid Wasting Time Feeling Sorry For Yourself

Nobody likes someone who has a victim mentality. If someone says something or things do not go how you want them to does not mean that the world if out to get you. There is no reason for you to waste time feeling sorry for yourself. Get over it. We all go through difficulty. It is what makes us human. However, we do go through life differently and it is those people that make it out alive that understand that staying strong is crucial. Mental fortitude is something that you need to establish by not feeling sorry for yourself. Take some responsibility for your actions and keep moving forward to start a new chapter.

Never Allow Others to Talk Down to You

As a mentally strong person, you get to take control of your life and have no trouble working with others. However, one cannot allow others to belittle or abuse them. You need to understand that you have the power to put a stop to their behavior. Nobody would do something unless you let them. It is as simple as that. Therefore, if someone talks down to you, you need to stand up for yourself and tell them to put an end to it.

Accept Change

Staying strong equips you with the ability to accept change. It is here to stay. Hence, you should not resist it. Instead, learn to embrace change and you will become stronger than you think. It is only when you resist change do you make things harder for yourself. It is perfectly fine to have a fear of the unknown. However, it should not be holding you back from living the best life that you deserve. Being strong requires you to view change as new opportunity. Navigate uncharted waters through flexibility.

Avoid Pleasing Others

Mentally strong people do not waste time pleasing others or making enemies. They are too busy living their lives and not caring about what others think. It is important that you treat everyone fairly including yourself. It is completely fine to say no and set some boundaries. Nobody should be upset with you over such things as you are an adult who has every right to live their life the way they want to.

Conclusion

The importance of staying strong cannot be stressed enough. Only when you are mentally strong are you able to steer through the difficulties that come your way. Do not let anything get to you. It is the secret to being strong. Always remember that you are stronger than you think and that you can do everything.