It's Who You Trust

Saturday, June 30, 2018

Be vigilant for the sake of your happiness.
Remember not everyone can be trusted. It's up to you to decide who is worth your trust and who isn't. Be vigilant for the sake of your happiness.

Your Own Terms

Friday, June 29, 2018

Life quotes: Your Own Terms.
Walk your journey. Never lose sight of your goal.

Motivation To Live Your best Life.

Wednesday, June 27, 2018

Motivation To Live Your best Life.
Motivation To Live Your best Life.

Nothing is worth your peace
Nothing is worth your self-love.
Nothing is worth your self-respect.
Live your best life. 

Love Held Hostage

Monday, June 25, 2018

You are worthy of great love and deserve to be loved fully and completely.
Why let fake love hold your happiness hostage when real love can set you free? You don't deserve to be stuck in a dead end relationship for any amount of time. Love is meant to inspire and motivate a person to grow in a positive way, not to restrict. Any relationship that puts a restriction on your growth needs to be ended for the sake of your happiness. Never settle for anything less than real love. You are worthy of great love and deserve to be loved fully and completely.


Saturday, June 23, 2018

Self-care Quotes
Self-care is so important and yet life makes remembering to actually do so very hard sometimes. Some of us focus on taking care of the needs of other people so much that we forget ourselves and end up getting burnt out.  But guess what? It's time to take care of your needs. You deserve to be able to take care of yourself and just relax sometimes. Be selfish. Be for your happiness. Be for everything that makes you enjoy life more. That's self-care. And should someone try to make you feel bad about you taking the time out of your life to take care of yourself, well you do not need that type of negativity in your life.

Negative Energy In Your sphere.

Friday, June 22, 2018


Sometimes the biggest problem is coming from those in your sphere. You have to keep a close watch on the energy you allow to crowd around you otherwise you risk being influenced by the negativity they are putting off.

Walk your path with conviction

Wednesday, June 20, 2018

Walk your path with conviction 

Walk your path with conviction and assurance that every step you take is the right one FOR YOU. Remember that your path doesn't have to look "right" to anyone else. It is for YOU to walk. 

The Definition of Your Happiness.

Tuesday, June 19, 2018

The Definition of Your Happiness.

Define the happiness you wish to see in your life. It's yours. Now is the time to exercise your right to being happy without caring about the opinion of others. Always be ready and willing to live your best life.

From the Heart

Monday, June 18, 2018

Sometimes a partnership has run its course...

Sometimes a partnership has run its course and knowing when to let it go is for the best. If you cannot even picture a future with said person, going any further into the relationship is useless on all fronts. Depending on the situation people start to drift apart and/or begin imagining themselves with another person either way its best to try to end it on good terms or risk staying in an unhappy environment and eventually having it end on very bad terms.

Nothing More Than Motivation For The Journey.

Sunday, June 17, 2018

Nothing More Than Motivation For The Journey.

Always remember to live for yourself. People are going to doubt every move you make but its up to you whether you want to listen to the words of people who cannot even be bothered to believe in you. Let them doubt, let them be envious, and let them think what they want because at the end of the day its your journey to walk and on theirs. Walk this journey with self-love and the utmost confidence in yourself.

Expose your flaws and appreciate them

Thursday, June 14, 2018

Expose your flaws and appreciate them

Your flaws are a part of you and by not embracing them you are simply making an enemy of yourself. Accepting your flaws is never an easy thing to do but its going to be necessary if you ever want to have complete confidence in yourself. Expose your flaws and appreciate them and see them as the stepping stones to a better life.The act of accepting our flaws are the exact things that will ultimately make you a stronger person in the future.

Those around you need to thrive, not just survive!

Wednesday, June 13, 2018

Those around you need to thrive, not just survive!
Seek out people who want to grow in life. Open yourself up into having more positive people in your life and take the extra steps necessary to remove the negative people from your space. It's time to clean house! You deserve to have better people and better things in your sphere. Those around you need to thrive, not just survive!

Stay true to you

Tuesday, June 12, 2018

Stay True To You

In this life, staying true to one's self is the hardest thing to do and yet at the same time it's the most simple. It's truly a simple question of can we trust ourselves? Can we accept ourselves without any judgment? This world just loves to trick us into losing our authenticity in favor of its way of being. Staying true to yourself is the most essential thing you could ever bring into your life. Forget what they say you SHOULD be and instead choose to be YOU.

You hold the power

Monday, June 11, 2018

You hold the power to your own happiness
Adopt the mentality that allows you to just let go of your self-doubt and the negative opinions from all outside influences. It's time to go after what you really want in life without an ounce of hesitation. Focus on yourself for once, you deserve to live life to its full potential. When you finally decide to stop focusing on others and instead focus on yourself, life is just so much better. Reach for those goals and come to an understanding that you ultimately have power over your happiness. Stay true to who you are and not to what people say you should be.

 In order to have the level of happiness you crave in life, you have to let go of all those things that want to weigh you down.

4 things you should never sacrifice for anyone.

Friday, June 8, 2018

Never sacrifice these 4 things in life.  

4 things you should never sacrifice for anyone.4 things you should never sacrifice for anyone.4 things you should never sacrifice for anyone.
4 things you should never sacrifice for anyone.


Push Yourself.

Thursday, June 7, 2018

  •  Push yourself for your happiness.
  • Push yourself for your life.
  • Push yourself for your health.
  • Push yourself for your relationship.
  • Push yourself for your self-worth.
  • Push yourself for your self-love
  • Push yourself for your needs to be met.
  • Push yourself because they said you couldn't.
  • Push yourself. 
Push Yourself.

Expel Negativity

Wednesday, June 6, 2018

Permit your life, love, and health to have an abundance of positivity brought into it. Expel the negativity that seeks to sow discord and keep you from your happiness.

Make Your Relationship "The Priority"

Monday, June 4, 2018

Make Your Relationship "The Priority"

When you're in a relationship with someone, being a priority is a big deal no matter which way you look at it. To be honest its never too much to ask for you and the relationship to be at the very top of your partner's priority list. Let's be real the idea of a relationship implies you are supposed to be in this thing together and with that said you both owe it to the relationship to make each other  feel important no matter what. Things in life definitely try to get int he way of  prioritizing your relationship, like work, school, and children are just a small example of the things in life that tend to take up priority space in life.

Make Your Relationship "The Priority"But no matter what's going on, if the relationship is being put to the wayside for any reason, you need to know that you and the relationship deserves better.
No circumstances in life should make anyone in a relationship feel like they are not even on the priority list at all that just not a healthy relationship no matter which way you look at it. The fact is though some extreme life circumstances may force the priority levels to shift a but it should be a temporary shift not a year long one.

You and your partner need to make sure you are giving equal effort int he relationship otherwise its just going to starve, a relationship has to be fed healthy things to thrive and not feeling like a priority has no nutrients that the relationship can take in for strength. If your partner and you do not even feel special, the relationship is pretty much slowly taking in poison which will eventually kill it. Nobody wants to be in an unhappy relationship. Both people need to always feel equal in the relationship no matter what for it to grow. So always make sure that your relationship is always being prioritized with all your power and do not ever settle for anything less.

Healthy Relationships Are Forged.

Saturday, June 2, 2018

Healthy Relationships Are Forged For Battle!
Fight for your relationship! Forge a strong blade for battle!

 Knowing that somebody loves you so completely and utterly should bring some type of tranquility into ones life, this feeling of being loved is almost indescribable in nature and even though relationships have many ups and downs, hell sometimes it can be down right painful, but when everything is said and done a sort of calm should still be present, because in the face of a strong relationship all issues should become irrelevant compared to the love you have for one another. 

If this serenity is nowhere to be found within a relationship it may be time to just call it quits because nobody should settle for constant chaos with no end in sight.

 No relationship should be forged based on what a person might become, but instead it should be made upon the foundation of what each individual has to offer the relationship in the *present* so that you both may grow together and head toward a bright future. By falling in love with a person's potential one is pretty much casting aside who that person is in the *now* and instead is focusing on what he/she may become in the future and that almost never ends well.

 Love is the feeling of being in a state of completion, where nothing else can fill that void in the deepest part of your heart except that one special person, it's not being able to see yourself with anyone else in the world, because without that person you would simply feel empty inside, you can live, but you don't feel complete.

Never fall in love with a person's potential

Healthy Relationships Are Forged For Battle!  Selfishness can cause even the strongest relationships to fracture. Nobody wants to be with someone who tends to be so focused on themselves that they cannot see the relationship. That being said, the priorities in a healthy relationship should be the ability to create an environment of caring for one another because its much better to have a person who is willing to share everything with you, go through hard times with you, and love you accordingly. 

Listening is a vital part of any relationship, nobody wants to be with someone that does not listen to them. With listening comes understanding and with that problems within the relationship can be addressed and fixed (which is always good while in a relationship of course). Listening and communication go hand in hand and it should be equal so that one partner does not feel overburdened by the other. listening is love. 

Love can inspire one to become a better person, to make sacrifices one never thought possible, and the power to conquer so much in life. The power that love has is unlimited, and stretches through time and space. Truly it is the greatest gift ever given to this world. Love is inspiration.   

 Secrets and lies will eventually destroy a relationship as they tend to build up until they can no longer be contained. Being with someone that truly loves every part of you, there is really no need for any secrets nor lies in any healthy relationship because they should have a foundation of mutual trust. One may be able to get over some lies, but tend to have a type snowball effect and lead bigger ones before its all said and done so its best to just be honest, while having secrets just says that one does not trust their partner with the whole truth...(trust is either 0% or 100% a person cannot trust somebody 50% of the time and expect the relationship to prosper). Love simply doesn't need these two things around it as it tends to be counter productive to happiness in the relationship.

 When heading into a potential long term relationship one of  the first steps is to set aside some time to think about mutual goals and put them into writing. It may be helpful to do this together so both parties can reflect on each others true desires for the long term.
Sometimes it can be tempting to set to many unrealistic goals that end up going nowhere and lose sight of the big picture which is a long lasting love.

Both of your goals should ultimately lead to the betterment of your relationship and life as a whole. 

Setting realistic goals in love is often a balancing act of sorts, as it requires one to have the ability to attain these goals while still being able to keep a healthy relationship maintained. 

 No Matter what happened in the past how is it fair to throw that upon the back of the present relationship? All its going to do is struggle under the weight. Its not fair to you nor your partner. The past needs to stay in the past so you can enjoy the present.

Healthy Relationships Are Forged For Battle!  When you really stand back and look at love from a distance you will notice that somehow it is both complex and very simple at the same time which i honestly just find amazing.  

Be with someone who wants to know how your day went and never let anyone in this world make you feel that you're not good enough, no need to settle for anything less in this life.

 More often than not when you enter into a relationship naysayers will begin to pop up, this could be family or friends that one annoying co-worker or neighbor who simply feels the need to butt into something that doesn't necessarily concern them. While having family and friends feel concern for you and your lover is sometimes a good thing some people tend to take it to far and end up literally trying to tear apart the relationship either on purpose or in inadvertently which is not ok.

If you find that while being in a relationship you are unhappy 90% of the time, it is time to reevaluate why you are still with this person, settling for less is one thing but to settle for 90% less is not ever going to be a good thing. The fact is your happiness and the happiness of the other person involved should be paramount and this should be as close to equal as possible. If it can somehow be worked out that is great indeed, but if not happiness with another is right around the corner.  

Healthy Relationships Are Forged For Battle! A relationship takes a team effort, if you are in to that type of thing). Let them know that you and your partner do not need the extra input and always remember to stand up for one another AT ALL TIMES! Its YOU and YOUR partners relationship and outside interference needs to be drowned out for the sake of keeping a healthy relationship. if they do not understand after all that well drop them from your life because they only wanted to see you fail regardless.

No relationship will ever be perfect, it will without a doubt be a series of crazy ups and downs. Nobody is perfect, and as such expecting a relationship to be smooth sailing the whole way is just not realistic because it takes hard work and commitment toward each other to make it through the rough times that will inevitably come to pass. Love is such a complex thing but once you accept that imperfection is not settling for less the complexities of said love will start to become a bit more practical.

 Be with someone who will love you for who you are and yet is always ready to be the support you need as you grow (this goes both ways). Pretty much this will require a strong desire to communicate with one another.  No point in being in a relationship without getting and giving some type of support right? Never forget how to love yourself too ok? Remember to BECOME love, learn how to RECEIVE love, and how to also GIVE love. 

The little things in relationships matter so much. The simple conversations about nothing, breakfast in bed( who doesn't like breakfast in bed), flowers and surprise gifts are always going to be fun. It doesn't matter if the relationship has been going on for 5 years or 5 months you better believe the little things can create a big impact on the relationship being a happy one. 

What's the point of being a relationship if you cannot work as a *team* to navigate this world? Never let any accomplishments in love be downplayed, congratulations should always be in order when you or your partner succeed at something in life (love takes a team of two).

Healthy Relationships Are Forged For Battle!

Remember to grow together with your important person, over time you will grow in different ways but it should lead you right back to each other in a healthy relationship(and if its not it may be best to split). The goal here is the acceptance of each others growth while heading into a love filled future.
LOVE = mutual respect, admiration, caring, kindness, nurturing, looking out for the others best interests, and both putting 100% into the relationship. 
                                                       Love is growth

Stop Caring What People Think Of You.

Friday, June 1, 2018

Stop Caring What People Think Of You.
People do not own claim over what you do and what you feel no matter how much they want to. Your sense of self has to be stronger than their need to constantly try to pick apart everything that you do or say. Trust yourself to know that the decisions you make in your life are the one  YOU NEED IN YOUR LIFE, not the type of decisions someone else is just ok with. Because fuck them.

Why spend your whole life asking for permission to be happy and validation for your actions?
You don't have to live like that IN FACT, you DON'T HAVE TO LIVE LIKE THAT. Your best life is yours to live, your best relationship is yours to enjoy, and your way of coping is yours to own! All people ultimately have is opinion and its up to you to know that 99% of them need to get ignored. Make the best decision for yourself and be your own magic!