2019 IS THE YEAR


Let this new year be filled with success and happiness. You have the power to makes these things and more your reality. 2019 is the year of progress.

Loving yourself is of utmost importance in today’s world due to extreme tension and negative vibes surrounding it.


Happiness in life is something viewed as a luxury only the lucky can afford. It seems that happiness and life are two distant beings waiting to conjoin but fail every time. What is life if it lacks love and happiness?
People who view the non-existence of happiness in life as a foregone conclusion are substantially mistaken. One should strive for happiness and all the good things that come with it till the very last breath.
And what better way to find that exact thing than by loving yourself. In a world where people do things that they shouldn’t for people that they don’t love, loving and living for your own self is considered an abnormality.
Loving yourself can heal a broken mind and body. Loving oneself can break barriers and broaden horizons, unlike any other act. This article provides a guideline to help love yourself and in turn help others and all of the mankind.
  • Honesty and Commitment: These two words should not be synonymous with a couple or only present during a relationship. You should exercise honesty and commitment to your life, values, and ethics. Only then will you know the true meaning of love and will be able to achieve something previously considered unachievable. 
  • Knowing When to Walk Away: Knowing your instincts and limitations will bring endless joy and happiness to your life. Backing away from the edge into the opposite direction can be considered means to an end. Needless suffering should never occur if your goal is to love yourself and avoid gloom.
     
  • Trust: Trust is and will always be a personal decision. It can never be influenced by an outside party regardless of what the world says. Trust yourself in order to love yourself. This cannot be stressed enough. Without trust, there is no happiness and without happiness, there is simply no love for yourself or as a matter of fact for anyone.
     
  • Discard Negativity: A negative and pessimist approach can lead to catastrophic results both physical and mental. Getting rid of all things negative will enable you to grow and be happy with your life without having any regrets or complications. Constant negativity results in poor health. A famous proverb states that “health is wealth”. Good health has an obvious direct impact on happiness.
     
  • Avoid Perfectionism: The quest for perfection has always proven to be an ill-conceived one. There is simply no such thing as perfection. In fact, the small flaws in our lives are what make it perfect. Striving for perfection will take you far from happiness due to the fact that nothing will make you satisfied or content. Hence, avoiding perfection should be considered for one to love themselves.


 A happy and comfortable life is not in the fortunes of each and every individual. Thus, we should cherish every second and live it like it’s our last. Loving yourself is of utmost importance in today’s world due to extreme tension and negative vibes surrounding it.

In conclusion, the desire and wish to live for yourself stems from within and cannot be forced upon.you. It is you who has to make it happen.

Some people are just there to expend your resources instead of helping you grow.


Some people are just there to expend your resources instead of helping you grow. They would rather absorb all the nourishment from your soil to feed themselves and watch just you wither, it's a sad thing honestly but it happens all the time. Watch the people around and see how they move.

Are they taking more out of the friendship/relationship than they are giving? Examine their motives and if you find them lacking you might need to examine their place in your life.

Without nutrient rich soil you will never grow and reach your full potential. You cannot afford selfish people around you.

So try to find people who are interested in making sure that your soil is filled with the right amount of nourishment and that the right seeds are being planted in your life. And be sure to do the same for them. Its all about reciprocity.

Own your world or somebody else will.

Do whats right for you.
Live the way you want to.
Love who you want to.
Be successful on your own terms.
Take control of your life. 
Own your world or somebody else will.

Walk in power and walk with confidence in your purpose. You don't need them to understand your struggle, you just need them to feel the power it gave you.

And they never will truly understand it and that's ok. You are an absolute beast and you can and will make it through whatever life throws at you. Your pain has made you strong and now nothing can break you nor impede your progress. Walk in power and walk with confidence in your purpose. You don't need them to understand your struggle, you just need them to feel the power it gave you.

You deserve actionable people around you, not more leeches.



If they cannot and will not put the word love into action then you do not need them in your life. Its really that simple. You deserve actionable people around you, not more leeches.

You owe it to yourself to maintain a healthy mindset at all times.


Do yourself a favor and remember to always keep your mindset free of the impurities of this world. All the negativity this world has to offer might constantly be coming at you, but your mindset is fortified against it!

You owe it to yourself to maintain a healthy mindset at all times. Don't let anyone or anything convince you otherwise.

Search Within


Sometimes you have to look within yourself to find the inspiration that you need in life. Look deep and search well. You may just find s whole new source of power.

Embrace the better you.

Embrace the better you. The positive and successful you. The amazing, loving you. The strong and never putting up with any type of bullshit you. The unyielding you. Know that you are one of a kind. Live this life on your own terms, and never let anyone else stop you from being happy. Embrace the best version of you.

Lazy in love


Relationships take a lot of work but remember that while they aren't supposed to feel job its still going to take a great amount of effort. Don't get lazy in love and don't settle for a lazy in love type of partner.

Don't just vaguely demand 100% of the effort to be put into the relationship by both parties, EXPECT IT! Make it a prerequisite. Quickly let them know that its a take it or leave it type of offer. Love for love. Loyalty for loyalty. No lazy lovers allowed.

Some situations are just beneath you.


Some situations are just beneath you in life. You do not need to expend your precious energy trying to make them work out no matter the cost, nor do you need to waste your time trying to get through them all. Sometimes a situation just needs you to have the self respect to walk away from it. So walk away from the situations with your head held high and your self respect intact. Never entertain toxic situations that are below your standards. Leave the bad situations and the people who create them in the rear view.

 HEALING IN A TOXIC ENVIRONMENT IS IMPOSSIBLE.

Stop trying to heal in a toxic environment.



A Toxic Environment is not a place to seek refuge. You will never be able to truly heal in a place of concentrated toxicity and negativity. Seek a better environment with better people and better things going on and take the time to heal those wounds. Stop trying to heal in a toxic environment.

 Infinite Love

Love Like Infinite Water 

Loving someone for who they are (now) is such an odd statement to me. Its just too one dimensional. Too simple of a description about what loving and being love actually requires in this life. Love is an incredibly complex thing, people change far too fast for you to concentrate all your love on a single (now). Instead, your love has to be like infinite water. 

As Infinite water, the love now has the ability to be able to change into whatever shape and form is necessary to fit each and every moment past, present, and future, yet remain inexhaustible. This is the kind of love you deserve to give and get. An infinite love that never stops flowing.


Love Like Infinite Water.

Treat Yourself Better

Treat yourself in the best way possible Put yourself in the most positive situations and ignore the negative ones. You owe that much to yourself. Give yourself time to emotionally heal from the past. Sometimes it takes a little time but its well worth it. You have to treat yourself better than anyone else in the world possibly could. That is self love. That is the essence of happiness. Self care is such an amazing thing. It takes a lot of hard work, but the payoff is just spectacular.

Bring more peace into your life and leave the chaos behind.

The best type of habit to form is one where you no longer accept the bullshit people want to just throw into your life. You don't have to take the negativity into your being, you have the ability to simply cut yourself off from it. Cut off the toxic people and the situations that they bring with them. Form new habits that include positivity and good situations. Bring more peace into your life and leave the chaos behind.

Permission To Be A Badass

Permission To Be A Badass

It is your time!
This is your life!
Be all that you can be!
Love more than you ever have before!
Live more than you ever thought you could!
Don't just chase success in this life BECOME success!
Forget what happened yesterday, Be ready to take on today, and be willing to conquer tomorrow!

How a person moves in certain situations will let you know if they can even attempt to match your definition of Love & Loyalty and if they can't, it's time to go find some people that do know how to love and have the will be loyal.

Whether its friendship or relationship you need to make sure that they can match your definition of Love & Loyalty. If the people that you have around you cannot match your definition of Love & Loyalty you are bound to run into multiple negative situations in the future. The simple fact is, some people do not know how to love correctly and just aren't capable of being completely loyal. These types of individuals are always ready and willing to dump a mess into your peaceful life. Watch their actions and stop listening to their words. 

How a person moves in certain situations will let you know if they can even attempt to match your definition of Love & Loyalty and if they can't, it's time to go find some people that do know how to love and have the will be loyal.

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