The Choice To Be Happy

The Choice To Be Happy

Monday, May 10, 2021

Making the Choice to Be Happy

 

The Choice to Be Happy

When it comes to finding happiness, you do not need to look anywhere else since you hold the answer to being happy. The secret to being happy is deciding to be happy. It is a choice that we have to make every day if we want to live happier lives. Reading the news or managing work stress can take a toll on you. However, it is not reason enough to be unhappy. The world can be a scary place, but it does not mean that you should be scared or worried. This post shares the top tips that will make it easy for you to decide to be happy.

1. Focus on Happiness Daily

Instead of waiting for happiness to come to you, you have to decide to be happy. If you keep waiting, you are only hurting your mental health and letting life pass by. This is why you make to focus on happiness daily. Dedicate some time to focusing on the good things in life. You will notice a shift in your thinking.

2. Stop Playing the Then-If Game

In order to be happy, you need to stop waiting for that new job, new house, to fall in love, to move somewhere different, or to lose weight. The endless pursuit of happiness is responsible for our continuous unhappiness according to a research conducted by the Mayo Clinic. It is reason enough to give up the then-if game.

3. Accept Responsibility for Your Happiness

Happiness is your responsibility and no one else’s. If you keep looking for someone who wants to make you happy for the rest of your life, you are wasting your time. Stop looking outside and look within. You hold all the answers to end your misery.

4. Find Pleasure in the Smallest of Things

The truth is that it is the smallest of things that have the greatest impact on our happiness. Rather than saving up for that perfect getaway to South Asia, you should take trips to the malls to catch a new movie, sip some delicious latte, and wear that beautiful dress you have been saving. By finding joy in simple pleasures, you will have an easy time being happy.

5. Stop Obsessing Over the News

The main goal of reading the news should be to stay informed, but not to obsess. At the end of the day, there is not much we can do. Although you can write a letter to the senator to address your concerns about the environment or donate to your favorite orphanage, you should leave some space between what is happening around the world and what you think about.

6. Cultivate Your Social Media Feed

It is about time that you conducted a social media audit and unfollowed all those toxic people in your life. Instead, you should follow uplifting, loving, and positives pages on social media to add happiness to your life.   

Conclusion

Being happy is definitely a choice. The tips mentioned above will help you bring happiness into your life.

 

 

Do You Have Trust Issues or Are They Just An Issue?

Monday, April 12, 2021

Do You Have Trust Issues or Are They Just An Issue?

 

Sometimes its not that you have trust issues its simply that they are an issue.

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People who constantly discard your trust in them have no place ever asking to to forge them a "trust me badge". People need to understand that trust is a once in a lifetime uniquely made token that CANNOT be replicated and if they have the audacity to discard it or lose it they must be the ones to find it. 

People will constantly show up in your life and discard the trust you put in them and then turn around and do everything in their power to convince you that somehow you were wrong and that they are sorry, but be aware of the subtle manipulation, did they really pick up the trust you gave them?

Actions not only speak louder than words, they are all that matter in a situation like this. If a person is trustworthy they will be trustworthy there is no in-between no matter how hard they try to convince you that there is.

Do yourself a favor and ALWAYS make sure that people understand how important and unique the trust you gave them is and if they cannot see how precious it is then they did not deserve it in the first place and the consequence is all on them. Forgive them for tossing your trust to the side, but never expend your energy trying to turn an untrustworthy person into a person who can be trusted. 

  

12 BADASS Tips for Self-Love And Confidence!

12 BADASS Tips for Self-Love And Confidence!

Wednesday, April 7, 2021

12 BADASS Tips for Self-Love And Confidence!

Self Love.

1. Love yourself, but do not be vain. Self-love has no room for arrogance.

No More Drama.

2. Do not get into drama. It may be hard because so many people love starting drama, but what you say and do is a reflection of yourself and you want that reflection to look back at you full of assurance that you are at your best.

No Competition.

3. Life not a competition, everyone is the same. You don't have to progress at anyone else speed, you get to walk your path at the speed of your choosing.

You Don't Have To Impress People.

4. You may not impress everybody, but here's the thing, you don't have to lol. Work on impressing yourself instead! 

Confidence Is A Muscle.

5. Confidence is like a muscle, everyone has it but most people do not know how to flex it! And like any muscle you want to grow stronger YOU HAVE GOT TO WORK IT OUT.

Negative People Have To Go.

6. Allowing negative people to rent space in your life will only end up poisoning your confidence and ultimately lowering your potential for a happy existence. Avoid negative people for your own good. 

Walk With Confidence.

7. Love yourself and walk with confidence. Crush the negative opinions of other's under your foot and keep going toward your happiness.

Dreams Into Reality.

8. Remember your dreams and do everything that you can to make them a reality. Make a vision board and see how many things you can accomplish! Success is just right around the corner if you are willing to walk.

Don't Give 100% And Get 50% In Return.

9. Do yourself a favor and don't settle for anything less than mutual support in Relationships/Friendships. You don't have time for the *Giving 100/getting 50* type relationships in life.

Don't Put Anyone On A Pedestal.

10. Treat everyone the same!! Don't put people on a pedestal because 9 times out of 10 they will take advantage of you and start to throw rocks at you from above. Deal with everyone on even ground.

Self-care

11. Self-care is of the utmost importance. If you don't have your back how are you ever going to have someone else's? 

 You Are A Badass.

12. Remember just how BADASS you really are. You got this. You always did.

Dealing with Difficult People

Friday, March 26, 2021

Dealing with Difficult People

We all come across people who can be difficult to deal with. However, sometimes, it can feel extremely frustrating. If you are struggling to deal with difficult people, you are not alone. People who refuse to collaborate, stick to their views, push you even when you try to help them, or do not turn their work can put you in a difficult situation. Rather than doing something that you will regret in the future, you should follow the tips mentioned below. They will help you get out of a tough situation.

1. Remain Calm

One of the most important tips that you need to follow is remaining calm. Losing your temper is just not worth it. Instead of flaring out at the person who refuses to listen to you, you should assume a calm persona. When you are calm, you show the other person that you are in control and cannot be messed with. Thus, the person will quickly notice where they went wrong and do as desired.

2. Understand the Person

The reason why some people may seem difficult is that they are in a tough spot. This is why it makes sense to understand the person before acting on your thoughts. Remember, most difficult people do not want to be difficult, but only behave a certain way because of the situation they are in. The best way to deal with such people is by identifying their triggers and acting accordingly to resolve the matter.

3. Ask Others for Insight

Nobody likes to accept that they are wrong. Not every difficult person is difficult. Chances are that you just need to see things from a different angle. Hence, you should ask your friends and colleagues for their insights before making a final decision. When you ask others for their point of view, you get to take a step back and see things for what they are. Besides, we could all use some golden advice at the end of the day.

4. Explain Your Situation to the Person

Sometimes, all it takes to deal with difficult people is telling them where you are coming from. You should always let the person know your intentions. It is possible for people to think that you are the one who is difficult. When you let them know why you are acting a certain way, you get to create an empathetic relationship that leaves room for understanding and overall harmony.

5. Ignore

If you have tried the above and still do not see any difference, it would be best that you just ignore the people. Since you have already put in the effort to deal with the situation, you will not regret it when you ignore the person. Keep in mind that you cannot ignore every person. For instance, you cannot start ignoring your colleagues or boss if they disagree with you.

Conclusion

Now that you know everything about dealing with difficult people, you should have no trouble living a stress-free life. Try out the tips mentioned above to simplify your life.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

thoughts on the journey to happiness.

 thoughts on the journey to happiness.

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There is no situation in this world that can not be made better by having a calm mind. Being calm in any situation gives you the amazing advantage to be able to see things as clearly as possible so that you can make the best decision regardless of what is going on around you. 

A calm mind cannot be weakened nor exploited and that is what makes having a calm mind no matter the situation so important!

 

 There is power to be found in leaving a situation that is no longer benefiting your growth in life. Don't get stuck in a place of negativity and just stay there, that is no place to be! Some situations will simply requires you to walk away from them even if its not exactly *simple*. There are times were power is found in walking away. 

 

They set the bridge on fire, letting it burn down to ash and all on their terms without regard for how you may have felt, the choice to rebuild must be on yours.

 

At some point in life I just stopped taking in all the pain and just let the happiness and hope i had consume it instead. Once I did that everything just started to fall into place. 

When people walk away from your life there is a reason. Help them find the door and lock it after they go. 

The journey of life is not something that will be easy but it is something that will be necessary. What you make of this journey will end up making all the difference.

If they don't to be truthful you have to let them go. You don't have to travel the road to happiness alongside liars. 

Do everything in your power to keep your power and your peace.

You will have to make sure that people don't get comfortable with betraying you and draw a line in the sand. This is for the sake of your happiness, so it must be done otherwise they will just do it over and over again with consequence

People in this life will constantly try and hand you negativity, but that doesn't mean you have to take it. Hold onto positivity with both hands instead!

Deep Inspirational Quotes About Life, Love, And Happiness.

Deep Inspirational Quotes About Life, Love, And Happiness.

Saturday, March 13, 2021

  Deep Inspirational Quotes About Life, Love, And Happiness.

 

A happy life is the result of positive daily choices.

When you’re practicing self care, feeling enlightened, and just altogether taking care your priorities in your life that is where true happiness lies. You don't have time to worry about what other people are doing in their lane all you have to do is worry about yours and make sure you keep driving forward.

Love is not synonymous with begging. Not only can you not force a person to care about you, why would you ever want to do that in the first place? if they cared they would care you know what I mean? having to beg someone to care about you is just not how love works. There is no love in begging.

If they won't try for the sake of the relationship is time to make a move that involves them getting the hell out of your life! You should have to beg a person to try and make a relationship or friendship work. Love is about working together for the harmony of everyone involved, not some one sided situationship that gets on your nerves 9 times out of 10.

If you constantly find yourself having to tell someone the same exact thing about how you feel and they don’t even try to change it, understand they don’t respect you and they don't love you. You shouldn't have to beg someone to talk to you with respect. Especially not for love.

If putting the relationship first isn't the objective, why even be in a relationship in the first place? Nothing should ever come between the relationship if you want it to last and this goes beyond just couples and extends to friendship's and family as well. Put the relationship/friendship/familyship first ALWAYS.  

All you need to do is believe in yourself and stay on your path in life. Walk with confidence and ALWAYS stay a savage no matter what. Walk like you know damn well where you are going and you are going to get there no matter who or what tries to get in your way.

You don't need the world to believe in you, All you need to do is believe in yourself.

Love is an action word! Never find yourself in a position where you have to beg them to love you correctly!

Don't let anyone else think that they can ever decide your level of happiness in life.

When people don't want you to be happy remember to keep your happiness at an all time high! they don't get to control and diminish your happiness. This is your life and you are going to decide to live it happily.

Love is supposed to bring peace not strife.

My Life, My Rules. 

 

Living is so much more than just being happy 24/7.

im tired of empty apologies without changed Behavior.