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Change Your Life For The Better in 2021

The Power in Being Willing To Change Your Life for the Better   As Rumi always said “You are not a drop in the ocean. You are the entire ocean in a drop.” It could not be truer when it comes to life. We all hold more power than we think. If you want to change your career or start something new, there is nothing holding you back but your own mind. When there is a will, there is a way.   You should never limit your future to your current situation. Instead of being afraid of change, it is important that you learned to embrace it. To help you channel the willpower to change your life for the better, the following tips will prove useful.   Address Choices Made in the Past to Change Choices You Make for the Future   Life is based on the outcome of our choices. Some we regret, while others we are proud of. Reflect on the choices you have made in the past and address them to change your future choices. You will notice a shift in energy.   Be Truly Honest with Yourself   The secret to unle

Whats Wrong With Being Too Nice?


Whats Wrong With Being Too Nice?

 Being too nice and always saying yes, even when you really mean no, can lead to some annoying situations in life. Don't let people take advantage of you and be sure to let them know that you are serious when you use the word “no” and you will not change your mind. Sometimes you just have to put your foot down. 

 Here's the thing, time and time again we may come to find ourselves at the crossroad of personal happiness versus the happiness of others, but the thing about personal happiness is that it can also be help to others, i mean who wants a person who is unhappy helping them? Nobody does because they treat it like a chore. Once personal happiness is in hand one becomes more inclined to pass this great feelings onto another. And less inclined to allow people the room to mess with said happiness.

 There will still be times were choosing the overly nice route may not be for the best, as you will be helping other people throughout life and sometimes your personal happiness may get put on the back burner for awhile so keeping a type balance between being nice, but not too nice, is probably for the best considering life and people seem to love throwing curve-balls left and right just to test your mettle. Just do not let the balance tip in favor of others too much because at the end of the day your happiness matters just as much as anyone else's, never lose that mindset. Keep the balance no matter what.