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Do You Have Trust Issues or Are They Just An Issue?

Do You Have Trust Issues or Are They Just An Issue?   Sometimes its not that you have trust issues its simply that they are an issue. Please share these around the internet as they might help someone in need! Spread positivity to all corners of the world!   People who constantly discard your trust in them have no place ever asking to to forge them a "trust me badge". People need to understand that trust is a once in a lifetime uniquely made token that CANNOT be replicated and if they have the audacity to discard it or lose it they must be the ones to find it.  People will constantly show up in your life and discard the trust you put in them and then turn around and do everything in their power to convince you that somehow you were wrong and that they are sorry, but be aware of the subtle manipulation, did they really pick up the trust you gave them? Actions not only speak louder than words , they are all that matter in a situation like this. If a person is trustworthy the

Whats Wrong With Being Too Nice?


Whats Wrong With Being Too Nice?

 Being too nice and always saying yes, even when you really mean no, can lead to some annoying situations in life. Don't let people take advantage of you and be sure to let them know that you are serious when you use the word “no” and you will not change your mind. Sometimes you just have to put your foot down. 

 Here's the thing, time and time again we may come to find ourselves at the crossroad of personal happiness versus the happiness of others, but the thing about personal happiness is that it can also be help to others, i mean who wants a person who is unhappy helping them? Nobody does because they treat it like a chore. Once personal happiness is in hand one becomes more inclined to pass this great feelings onto another. And less inclined to allow people the room to mess with said happiness.

 There will still be times were choosing the overly nice route may not be for the best, as you will be helping other people throughout life and sometimes your personal happiness may get put on the back burner for awhile so keeping a type balance between being nice, but not too nice, is probably for the best considering life and people seem to love throwing curve-balls left and right just to test your mettle. Just do not let the balance tip in favor of others too much because at the end of the day your happiness matters just as much as anyone else's, never lose that mindset. Keep the balance no matter what.