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The Choice To Be Happy

Making the Choice to Be HappyThe Choice to Be Happy When it comes to finding happiness, you do not need to look anywhere else since you hold the answer to being happy. The secret to being happy is deciding to be happy. It is a choice that we have to make every day if we want to live happier lives. Reading the news or managing work stress can take a toll on you. However, it is not reason enough to be unhappy. The world can be a scary place, but it does not mean that you should be scared or worried. This post shares the top tips that will make it easy for you to decide to be happy.
1. Focus on Happiness DailyInstead of waiting for happiness to come to you, you have to decide to be happy. If you keep waiting, you are only hurting your mental health and letting life pass by. This is why you make to focus on happiness daily. Dedicate some time to focusing on the good things in life. You will notice a shift in your thinking.
2. Stop Playing the Then-If GameIn order to be happy, y…

Whats Wrong With Being Too Nice?


Whats Wrong With Being Too Nice?

 Being too nice and always saying yes, even when you really mean no, can lead to some annoying situations in life. Don't let people take advantage of you and be sure to let them know that you are serious when you use the word “no” and you will not change your mind. Sometimes you just have to put your foot down. 

 Here's the thing, time and time again we may come to find ourselves at the crossroad of personal happiness versus the happiness of others, but the thing about personal happiness is that it can also be help to others, i mean who wants a person who is unhappy helping them? Nobody does because they treat it like a chore. Once personal happiness is in hand one becomes more inclined to pass this great feelings onto another. And less inclined to allow people the room to mess with said happiness.

 There will still be times were choosing the overly nice route may not be for the best, as you will be helping other people throughout life and sometimes your personal happiness may get put on the back burner for awhile so keeping a type balance between being nice, but not too nice, is probably for the best considering life and people seem to love throwing curve-balls left and right just to test your mettle. Just do not let the balance tip in favor of others too much because at the end of the day your happiness matters just as much as anyone else's, never lose that mindset. Keep the balance no matter what.