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2020 Affirmations

2020 Affirmations That You Need In Your Life.
2020 is the year of empowerment.
You need to know that you can train your mind just like any other muscle in your body. If you choose do so (and I hope you will) you will have the ability get over any obstacle in life that you might find being thrown your way. 
As difficult as it may seem to train your mind in this life, especially in moments and situations that really test your ability to even try, it will pay off big in the long run.
The moment I truly decided to incorporate many of these philosophies into my everyday life I started to notice EVERYTHING becoming better. Although it is still a work in progress, as many things in life are (and that is OK), I have been seeing more of those “amazing ups in life” and finding myself able to more effectively to get through those “terrible lows”  that can sneak up on you in life.
Everything in life comes down to being conscious of the many decisions that you make in your life and being willing …

Whats Wrong With Being Too Nice?


Whats Wrong With Being Too Nice?

 Being too nice and always saying yes, even when you really mean no, can lead to some annoying situations in life. Don't let people take advantage of you and be sure to let them know that you are serious when you use the word “no” and you will not change your mind. Sometimes you just have to put your foot down. 

 Here's the thing, time and time again we may come to find ourselves at the crossroad of personal happiness versus the happiness of others, but the thing about personal happiness is that it can also be help to others, i mean who wants a person who is unhappy helping them? Nobody does because they treat it like a chore. Once personal happiness is in hand one becomes more inclined to pass this great feelings onto another. And less inclined to allow people the room to mess with said happiness.

 There will still be times were choosing the overly nice route may not be for the best, as you will be helping other people throughout life and sometimes your personal happiness may get put on the back burner for awhile so keeping a type balance between being nice, but not too nice, is probably for the best considering life and people seem to love throwing curve-balls left and right just to test your mettle. Just do not let the balance tip in favor of others too much because at the end of the day your happiness matters just as much as anyone else's, never lose that mindset. Keep the balance no matter what.