Love Only Prevails If Its Real

Wednesday, October 8, 2025

Protect Your Heart From Fake Love No Matter What.  

 
Quotes about love


A manipulator is the worst type of person as they tend to be selfish to the core, and this can be made even worse in a relationship where people often find themselves being manipulated by things like guilt, insecurities, and doubt. An unreliable/manipulative partner is simply going to be an ex-partner eventually, so why put all that work into something that is going to crumble regardless? Being with a reliable person is a must in any relationship you want to last.

Being with someone you cannot rely on is counter-productive to any type of security you could ever want in a relationship (and who doesn't want security? Right?), it truly goes hand in hand with trust, being in a relationship with a reliable person bring about a deeper connection with your partner you know they will always be there to catch you when you stumble and will always have your back indefinitely.

There is no reason for anyone to have to endure the misery of a spouse while in a relationship. The whole reason for a partnership is to have mutual support, but if one side of the party refuses to even try to eliminate the personal misery they carry, what is the point from staying in a such a relationship? Tolerating a manipulative spouse is not good under any circumstances so don't.

 

Protect your heart from fake love no matter what.

Quotes about love.



Reframe your perspective

Friday, October 3, 2025

 
 
Reframe your perspective

 

Reframe your perspective

Introduction

If you want to make a change in your life, the most important thing is to take an honest look at how you're viewing it. If you ruminate on negative thoughts or visualize yourself failing, these images will become self-fulfilling prophecies. But if you can reframe your perspective and see the positive side of things—and really believe that what's going on isn't so bad at all—then change can happen for you.

Love yourself enough to treat yourself.

This is a hard one because I often find myself struggling with the idea of treating myself. But, if you really think about it, what could be more important than treating yourself well? It’s so easy to get caught up in our daily lives that we forget to love ourselves enough to treat ourselves well.

There are many ways you can treat yourself and give yourself some self-care time: yoga, meditation or just having an afternoon nap when there’s nothing pressing on your agenda can all help boost your mood and make you feel more relaxed. And if you keep at it, then eventually those moments will become part of your life—and even easier to fit in!

Think of your life with no limits.

You have to think of your life with no limits. The key is to focus on what you can do, not what you can't. The next time you feel like something is holding you back, ask yourself: "What would happen if I didn't let this stop me?" Often times the answer will be: nothing! And that's a good thing because it means that there isn't really anything stopping you in the first place.

Set goals and achieve them by being ambitious and having big dreams for yourself, but don't let fear hold you back from starting small if that's what works best for your situation and personality type (which is why we recommend testing out different things around here). Don't be afraid to fail because failing doesn't mean giving up or failing completely; it just means learning something new so that next time around when those same issues arise again they won’t trip up your progress like they did before.

Reconsider your definition of success.

Your definition of success is a life-changing concept that can lead you to live a more meaningful and fulfilling life. If you want to truly achieve success, it's important to reconsider your definition of success. Many people fall into the trap of thinking that being wealthy or having status is what constitutes true fulfillment in life, but this couldn't be further from the truth. True happiness comes from living a meaningful life and helping others along the way.

If you want to make a positive difference in your community and see yourself as successful, then it's time for some serious soul searching about what really matters most to you in life—and how best you can pursue those passions while making other people happy along the way (or even saving them). My number one piece of advice would be: define success differently!

Create new habits for yourself and repeat them daily.

Habits are the building blocks of our lives. They can help us focus, be productive and contribute to society in positive ways. What are habits? Habits are behaviors that we repeat regularly because they become automatic. Let's say you wake up at 6 a.m., go for a run, get ready for work and eat breakfast daily before heading off to the office or elsewhere. These habits formed over time because you repeated them daily until they became automatic—you don't need to think about what you're doing next because it has become habit-like behavior for you!

What happens if we don't develop good habits? Unfortunately, bad ones tend to take hold instead; these include procrastination and lack of motivation. Bad habits can cause problems in relationships as well as negatively impact our careers with missed deadlines due to poor time management skills caused by lack of planning or disorganization caused by laziness or lackadaisical attitude towards responsibilities such as completing projects on time without having revised them beforehand (the latter example being more common than one might think).

Focus on where you want to go, not where you are.

The first step is to reframe your perspective. Instead of focusing on where you are, focus on where you want to go. Instead of focusing on what you have achieved, focus on what you want to achieve.

Focus on the future, not the past. Focus on what you want to do, not what you are doing. This simple shift in thinking can help open your mind up for new ideas and possibilities for yourself and your business—which will ultimately lead to growth and success!

Find your purpose and live life by it.

Find your purpose and live life by it. How do you find your purpose? You have to start with the end in mind, and then work backwards from there.

How do you live your purpose? By making a decision, then taking action on that decision. The more often you take action towards fulfilling your goal, the closer you are to achieving it.

See the best in others and in yourself.

Seeing the best in others is a skill that will serve you well and make you happier. I have been guilty of this myself, but it's something I'm consciously working on. It helps me to remember that everyone makes mistakes and everyone has their own struggles and experiences that they have to deal with every day just like we do.

Seeing the best in yourself is also important, because the more beautiful your inner world is, the more beautiful your life can be too. We all have things we wish we could change about ourselves—I know I do! But when we focus on seeing only our negative qualities, other people will begin to see us as negative too; instead of seeing them as positive role models who inspire us or motivate us to be better versions of ourselves

Be okay with being uncomfortable.

It's okay to be uncomfortable. In fact, you should be ready and willing to feel that way when you're trying something new or taking a risk. It means that you're growing and learning, which is the whole point of life.

However! You shouldn't stay there. If you never take action outside of what's comfortable for you, then there's no growth—and therefore no meaning or purpose in this world for any of us. So try new things as often as possible—but don't get stuck there either!

Reframe your perspective and change your mindset

As a human being, the way you think is determined by how your brain has been wired. Your thought process has been shaped by your past experiences, your education and upbringing, and even biology; it's not something that can be changed overnight. However, there are ways to change your mindset for the better.

When it comes to reframing our perspective on things, we need to be careful not to let our emotions get the best of us—it's all too easy for anger or sadness or fear or any other emotion to take over if we're not paying attention! Instead of letting negative feelings take control of us when we're dealing with hardship or failure (or even just feeling down in general), try keeping calm and reminding yourself that sometimes life throws curve-balls at us—that doesn't make them any less difficult than they might seem on paper (or even in real life). It just means that sometimes life isn't fair; but there are good things waiting around every corner if we look hard enough!

Conclusion

Living a more fulfilling life is all about finding new ways to think about the things that you do, as well as reframing your perspective. It can be difficult to change your mindset when rutted into old patterns or beliefs. However, by being open-minded and willing to listen to others' ideas, it will help you see how much better life can be when you look at things differently.

Reframe your perspective

 THIS IS YOUR DUTY! 

The Choice To Be Happy

Friday, September 19, 2025


Happiness

Making the Choice to Be Happy

 

The Choice to Be Happy

When it comes to finding happiness, you do not need to look anywhere else since you hold the answer to being happy. The secret to being happy is deciding to be happy. It is a choice that we have to make every day if we want to live happier lives. Reading the news or managing work stress can take a toll on you. However, it is not reason enough to be unhappy. The world can be a scary place, but it does not mean that you should be scared or worried. This post shares the top tips that will make it easy for you to decide to be happy.

1. Focus on Happiness Daily

Instead of waiting for happiness to come to you, you have to decide to be happy. If you keep waiting, you are only hurting your mental health and letting life pass by. This is why you make to focus on happiness daily. Dedicate some time to focusing on the good things in life. You will notice a shift in your thinking.

2. Stop Playing the Then-If Game

In order to be happy, you need to stop waiting for that new job, new house, to fall in love, to move somewhere different, or to lose weight. The endless pursuit of happiness is responsible for our continuous unhappiness according to a research conducted by the Mayo Clinic. It is reason enough to give up the then-if game.

3. Accept Responsibility for Your Happiness

Happiness is your responsibility and no one else’s. If you keep looking for someone who wants to make you happy for the rest of your life, you are wasting your time. Stop looking outside and look within. You hold all the answers to end your misery.

4. Find Pleasure in the Smallest of Things

The truth is that it is the smallest of things that have the greatest impact on our happiness. Rather than saving up for that perfect getaway to South Asia, you should take trips to the malls to catch a new movie, sip some delicious latte, and wear that beautiful dress you have been saving. By finding joy in simple pleasures, you will have an easy time being happy.

5. Stop Obsessing Over the News

The main goal of reading the news should be to stay informed, but not to obsess. At the end of the day, there is not much we can do. Although you can write a letter to the senator to address your concerns about the environment or donate to your favorite orphanage, you should leave some space between what is happening around the world and what you think about.

6. Cultivate Your Social Media Feed

It is about time that you conducted a social media audit and unfollowed all those toxic people in your life. Instead, you should follow uplifting, loving, and positives pages on social media to add happiness to your life. 

7. Sharing This Happiness

Sharing is caring and the happiness in caring is sharing that very happiness with others. 

Conclusion

Being happy is definitely a choice. The tips mentioned above will help you bring happiness into your life.

 


 
Quotes about happiness


Self love


Obstacles were meant to be overcome.


Happiness

save yourself!

hope for a new day

the choice to be happy in 2021

Sad Quote, Happy life.




People Who Value Listening to Understand Without Judgment

Tuesday, September 9, 2025

 

 

 

The Importance of Surrounding Yourself with People Who Value Listening to Understand Without Judgment

The Importance of Surrounding Yourself with People Who Value Listening to Understand Without Judgment

Surrounding yourself with people who value listening to understand without judgment can have a significant impact on your personal growth, emotional well-being, and overall quality of life. When you have people around you who take the time to listen and understand your perspective without judging you, you feel seen, heard, and validated. This creates a sense of trust, openness, and support, which can lead to more meaningful and fulfilling relationships.

One of the main reasons why having people around you who value listening to understand without judgment is so important is that it creates a safe and supportive environment. When you know that the people around you are willing to listen to your thoughts, feelings, and experiences without judgment, you are more likely to open up and share your authentic self. This can help you build deeper connections with others and foster a greater sense of community.

Having people around you who value listening to understand without judgment can also help you develop your own listening skills. When you see others modeling this behavior, it can inspire you to do the same. As you practice listening to others without judgment, you may find that you are more empathetic, compassionate, and understanding in your interactions with others. This can lead to more productive and meaningful conversations and ultimately strengthen your relationships with others.

Additionally, having people around you who value listening to understand without judgment can help you navigate difficult or challenging situations. When you encounter conflict or disagreement with others, it can be easy to become defensive or dismissive. However, when you have people around you who are skilled at listening to understand without judgment, they can help facilitate more productive and respectful conversations. This can lead to greater understanding and ultimately resolve conflicts more effectively.

Moreover, having people around you who value listening to understand without judgment can also help you cultivate greater self-awareness. When you know that others are willing to listen to your thoughts and feelings without judgment, you may be more inclined to explore your own thoughts and feelings more deeply. This can lead to greater self-awareness and understanding, which can ultimately lead to personal growth and development.

Furthermore, having people around you who value listening to understand without judgment can help you feel more supported and less alone. In today's world, it can be easy to feel isolated or disconnected from others, especially in the midst of difficult or challenging situations. However, when you have people around you who are willing to listen to your perspective without judgment, you may feel more validated, understood, and supported. This can help you feel less alone and more connected to others, even in the face of adversity.

Lastly, having people around you who value listening to understand without judgment can help promote a greater sense of empathy and compassion in the world. When we take the time to listen to others without judgment, we are demonstrating a willingness to understand and appreciate their perspective, even if it differs from our own. This can help create a sense of unity and understanding in our interactions with others, and ultimately lead to a more compassionate and empathetic world.

In conclusion, having people around you who value listening to understand without judgment is essential for building meaningful and fulfilling relationships, developing your own listening skills, navigating difficult situations, cultivating greater self-awareness, feeling more supported and less alone, and promoting a greater sense of empathy and compassion in the world. So, if you don't already have people like this in your life, seek them out! Whether it's through a community group, social club, or simply connecting with people who share similar values, having people around you who value listening to understand without judgment can help you create a more fulfilling and rewarding life.


 


 

Quotes just in time for 2025

Tuesday, July 8, 2025

 

Quotes just in time for 2025

Quotes just in time for 2025

 Here Is To Trying To Make It Through The Week! The Month! The Year! 




Life so often puts us on channels we didn’t pick and schedules we didn’t find. Overwhelming often feels as if one were falling behind some invisible schedule; but the truth is, the pace has never been yours to command. The world turns at its rhythm, heedless of our desire for control. Tranquility does not come from trying to slow the motion but to move with it, to find stillness in the flow.

Unity.

Wednesday, June 11, 2025





I'm just going to keep this short. We need more unity in these horrible times. 


peace

peace

Unity for all people no matter the year.