Progress

Progress

Monday, July 26, 2021

 MAKE 2021 YOUR YEAR

Focus on yourself and then go help others. You will never be able to efficiently help anyone unless you have your life together, its time for you to think about your progress in life instead of getting wrapped up in someone else's life problems. Some people will try and suck you into their life and convince you that you need to focus on them more well those types of people are just selfish people who think they deserve all of you. Well they don't

You need to make sure that you are whole before you go and try to complete somebody else. Being overly concerned with others will not allow you to progress in your life in the proper manner. Don't let people suck you into their black holes. 

 

They did you wrong.

Saturday, July 24, 2021

 

 

 They did you wrong.

Sometimes people just do us wrong, it happens, but it's not our fault that they do not know what loyalty is. So why carry all the burden of their mistake? Feeling betrayed is one thing, but to allow them to stir up your negative emotions is another. Let them go and yes, you might be alone afterward, but ask yourself this: Do you honestly need a person who would betray you and not give it a second thought in your life?

 

 

 

 

Focus on what you are building in the present

Friday, July 23, 2021

Focus on what you are building in the present

 

 

 Focus on what you are building in the present and make sure that it's sturdy and ready to withstand whatever is coming in the future. Don't look back on what was destroyed in the past, there is nothing there for you. Accept whatever happened and continue to look forward. Everything of value to you is on the journey that you are currently on! 

 Make today the day! Focus!

 

Overcoming in Life

Saturday, July 3, 2021

 Overcoming in Life

Life can become overwhelming at times. You might feel that nothing is going according to your plan. Some days seem to go on forever, while others seem like a blur. You might feel numb or nothing at all and feel everything the very next moment. The thing about life is that every day brings new hurdles and that is not necessarily a bad thing as long as you know how to look past those things. Continuous effort is needed to overcome whatever comes your way. Here is how you can make it through the worst of times.

1. Change Your Perspective

One of the most important things that you need to do if you want to overcome difficulty in life is to shift your perspective. At the end of the day, it all comes down to how you look at things. Whenever you come across something challenging, you are likely to feel overwhelmed or even negative about it. One thing can lead to another. To make sure that you remain in the right set of mind, you just have to tweak your view of things. When you change your perspective, you get to wear a completely different lens and twist away from the negativity. Never let your energy go wasted on anything that is not worth pursuing.

2. Learn From Others

Everyone goes through difficult times in life. It is what binds us together and allows us to relate with one another. Chances are that there is someone out there whom you can learn from. It will provide you with great solace knowing that someone has been through similar circumstances or even worse. Even if the person made it out unharmed, it does not make their story any less credible and worth listening to. You can look around you or check the internet as there has to be a celebrity or even a family member who has been where you are. Therefore, you can learn from their experience.

3. Always Feel Free to Ask for Help

There is just so much that you can do on your own. You should never be afraid of asking for help. Even though you might be pessimistic about seeking help from others thinking that you came into this world alone, it is always better to find support. The world has only been successful due to our interdependence on one another. Besides, there is nothing wrong with asking for some help now and then.

4. Come Up With a Solution

Instead of dwelling on your problem, you should think of a solution to put an end to it. There is a solution for just about everything, even heartbreak. No matter how tall the hill might seem, you will be able to climb it and make it out alive. It all starts with small steps. You cannot expect to reach the top without any effort and that is the fun in it.

Conclusion

Overcoming difficulties in life might seem impossible. However, everything is possible with the right mindset. By changing your perspective, learning from others, asking for help, and coming up with a solution, you get to overcome just about everything that comes your way.

 

Extremely Powerful Quotes That Will Remind You Why To Focus On What Matters To You In Life Before You Risk Being Unhappy.

Extremely Powerful Quotes That Will Remind You Why To Focus On What Matters To You In Life Before You Risk Being Unhappy.

Friday, July 2, 2021

Extremely Powerful Quotes That Will Remind You Why To Focus On What Matters To You In Life Before You Risk Being Unhappy.

Focus On What Matters.

It's time to be empowered

Expressing gratitude. 

Cultivate optimism even in a negative environment. 

Practice kindness always.

Nurture loving relationships with everyone. 

Stay committed to a meaningful life. 

Know that Relationship goals is whatever you say it is.

Know that it's ok to not only enjoy life’s little pleasures but also the big ones too.

Never leave your mental well-being in the hands of others. 

Always listen to what you want in your life and ignore what other people have to say about it. it's not their place to decide how you live. 

Love is never supposed to be a shackle. 

Create sustainable happiness and never let anything get in the way of it. You deserve the best and you have to find the will to create that! Protect you happiness at all costs if you truly want a life worth living. 

Always remember the power that self-love can bring to your life. 

You have to freedom to say yes and no! Never let anyone take your options in life away from you. NOT EVER!

Fear and insecurity cannot be allowed to keep you from your happiness, you aren't going to give them anymore power over your life.

Watch out for manipulating apologies and the people that give them.

 Courage will defend you in your time of need and hope will allow you to cut through any and all barriers that have the audacity to stand in your way.

 Don't give in to your sadness and fight back with everything you have!

 Never give depression a good enough foothold in your life to flourish.

Never let anyone step all over your boundaries.

 You deserve the happiness that you seek. 

 

 How can you build a real connection without vulnerability?

 

 

Of Sand & Waves.
 

Understanding That You Are Enough

Understanding That You Are Enough

Wednesday, June 16, 2021

 

Understanding That You Are Enough

We live in a time where we are bombarded with adverts telling us how we can be enough. We see posts on social media by celebrities and influencers that instill in our minds what it means to be enough. However, the truth is that you simply are enough. It is only when you understand that you are enough would you be able to live the best life.
 

True love stems from an acceptance of oneself and not what others perceive you as or even caring about their acceptance. When we think of our nature, there are certain things that we cannot expect to change about ourselves or should we want to change about ourselves to please others. Those things are what define you and make you beautiful. You might think to yourself that your flaws are what hold you down. However, they are the most beautiful thing about you and the only things that lift you up and make you stand out in a world full of people trying to be someone they are not.
 

When you continuously chase someone else's idea of being enough, you can sometimes lose touch of who you are. It prevents you from succeeding in life or building meaningful relationships that make life worth living. Now, it is easy to say that we understand that we are enough. However, it is something that most of us struggle with throughout our lives. It does not matter how old or young you might be, understanding that you are enough is a continuous process. It requires you to reflect on your achievements and the effort that you had put into making things work.

Profound Effect

Reflecting on being enough has a profound effect on how you look at life and the way people treat you. It prevents you from viewing yourself through the perspective of another person. Instead, you get to look within which allows you to truly accept who you are and move past expectations. The only person you need to accept yourself and tell you that you are enough is you. There is no reason for you to beat yourself up or feel unworthy. If you do not accept yourself or think that you are enough, nobody else will. It all starts with you as you are the only universe that needs exploring.  
 

Real love begins on the inside. How can you expect to give love when you do not love yourself? You need to love yourself if you want to make your life better. When you constantly tell yourself that you are not enough, you let others know that you are not enough and that they should not fully accept you. Therefore, you must stop looking at yourself so critically and be more compassionate towards yourself.

Conclusion

The only takeaway that you need to take from our post is that you are enough the way you are and that you have always been enough. Nobody can tell you otherwise. If they bring you down, their company is not worth pursuing. 

Quotes About Staying Strong.

Quotes About Staying Strong.

Friday, June 4, 2021

 

The Importance of Staying Strong

Life is not rainbows or unicorns

Things do not always go according to plan and that is perfectly fine. If you feel that you lose hope or feel angry everything something goes wrong, you need to learn to stay strong. It does not rain all the time and things will get better eventually. However, you cannot let the tough times break you down. Instead, you need to stay strong and be resilient.

Avoid Wasting Time Feeling Sorry For Yourself

Nobody likes someone who has a victim mentality. If someone says something or things do not go how you want them to does not mean that the world if out to get you. There is no reason for you to waste time feeling sorry for yourself. Get over it. We all go through difficulty. It is what makes us human. However, we do go through life differently and it is those people that make it out alive that understand that staying strong is crucial. Mental fortitude is something that you need to establish by not feeling sorry for yourself. Take some responsibility for your actions and keep moving forward to start a new chapter.

Never Allow Others to Talk Down to You

As a mentally strong person, you get to take control of your life and have no trouble working with others. However, one cannot allow others to belittle or abuse them. You need to understand that you have the power to put a stop to their behavior. Nobody would do something unless you let them. It is as simple as that. Therefore, if someone talks down to you, you need to stand up for yourself and tell them to put an end to it.

Accept Change

Staying strong equips you with the ability to accept change. It is here to stay. Hence, you should not resist it. Instead, learn to embrace change and you will become stronger than you think. It is only when you resist change do you make things harder for yourself. It is perfectly fine to have a fear of the unknown. However, it should not be holding you back from living the best life that you deserve. Being strong requires you to view change as new opportunity. Navigate uncharted waters through flexibility.

Avoid Pleasing Others

Mentally strong people do not waste time pleasing others or making enemies. They are too busy living their lives and not caring about what others think. It is important that you treat everyone fairly including yourself. It is completely fine to say no and set some boundaries. Nobody should be upset with you over such things as you are an adult who has every right to live their life the way they want to.

Conclusion

The importance of staying strong cannot be stressed enough. Only when you are mentally strong are you able to steer through the difficulties that come your way. Do not let anything get to you. It is the secret to being strong. Always remember that you are stronger than you think and that you can do everything. 

True words: 5 reasons that happiness is yours for the taking.

True words: 5 reasons that happiness is yours for the taking.

Wednesday, May 26, 2021

5 reasons that happiness is yours for the taking. 

Until you conquer your doubt and tame the insecurities inside of you confidence and happiness will still be far off in the distance.

Be careful not to build thrones for everyone else and end up with nothing left to call your own.

What if life is just a test of mercy and love? Would you pass this test?

Mastering the art of true happiness requires practicing over and over again without the concept of *thought*. You repeat this process until it becomes a part of you, and as natural as breathing.

What if I told you that you could have happiness right now if you would just stop caring about what everyone else thinks?

Piece Yourself Back Together

Piece Yourself Back Together

Tuesday, May 25, 2021

If you can be made to feel yourself as being broken into pieces by others, you also have the ability to make yourself whole again. life is made up of a variety of good and bad, highs and lows, strengths and weaknesses, and a multitude of memories.

You have to see yourself as more than just a broken person and you might find that you have the resources and will to not only cope with certain circumstances, but also change them.

In my opinion, I have found that 'time can and will heal all wounds that you allow it to heal'.

The simple fact is, that you can either let everything and everyone cause you more pain, increased sadness, and deep emotional hurt in your life or have the courage to pick yourself up and defend yourself from whatever it is in life that has you feeling broken. It's time to reforge, reinforce, and reinvent yourself. 

This will not be an easy task, heck, you might even need some help along the way.

 A Loving family and supportive friends can be so much help. They can be a great motivator to help pull yourself back together, but watch out, they can also be the very reason you broke into pieces in the first place. Keep an open mind and take the time to see who is really in your corner.  

 All that hurt, all that frustration, all that control being stripped away from you, and all the sadness from the past has to be worked out by you, for you, remember that. This isn't meant to be an easy task and there will probably be a lot of crying and hurt feelings along the way, but all the hidden issues have to be revealed before you can ever hope make amends with yourself, other people, and certain situations that truly deserve a positive outcome. Life can be unpredictable in so many ways, it truly is a hard journey. But it is a journey that must happen.

Life causes us to fall, and sometimes we break… that is a part of life. What really matters is what you do after the fact.

You have to piece yourself back together, you have to want to improve things that you don't like about yourself, and continue to love the things that you do. You need to be proud of yourself, you deserve that feeling of accomplishment. It's not easy to focus only on the positive, let the things that make you angry slide, stop yourself from saying something you'll regret in the future,  and Knowing that keeping your mouth shut when someone else is angry and is taking it out on you is not okay and putting an immediate stop to it. These are just a few examples of just how many situations we have to navigate in life, but navigate we must! 

When all is said and done, you will get to a place in life where your tranquility is so protected and positivity so cemented in your being that you will tell yourself, "It's not worth it, I'm not getting involved with this type of thing for the sake of my peace." If you take the time to work on yourself, you can't help but enrich your walk in this life.  

Letting go isn't about giving in, it's just protecting your happiness. Life is so much easier, way more productive, and just happier that way.

5 HABITS OF SELF-LOVE

5 HABITS OF SELF-LOVE