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Dealing with Difficult People

Dealing with Difficult People We all come across people who can be difficult to deal with. However, sometimes, it can feel extremely frustrating. If you are struggling to deal with difficult people, you are not alone. People who refuse to collaborate, stick to their views, push you even when you try to help them, or do not turn their work can put you in a difficult situation. Rather than doing something that you will regret in the future, you should follow the tips mentioned below. They will help you get out of a tough situation. 1. Remain Calm One of the most important tips that you need to follow is remaining calm. Losing your temper is just not worth it. Instead of flaring out at the person who refuses to listen to you, you should assume a calm persona. When you are calm, you show the other person that you are in control and cannot be messed with. Thus, the person will quickly notice where they went wrong and do as desired. 2. Understand the Person The reason why some people may see

100/100. Make time.

In a relationship keeping score on who did what, has no place. The very moment you enter into a relationship and your teammate (spouse) scores, the *team* gets a point. It's all about teamwork, so work as a team and head into a bright future instead of trying to one up one another.

There's nothing wrong with pursuing a person who's clearly worth your time but there's also no need to waste anyone's time if you still want to be "selfish" that's not to say that you would treat the person badly but it will show that you're more invested in "you" than you are in "us" which isn't fair to anybody because regardless of how good or beautiful a relationship it is, its always going to come with compromises some bigger than others but the problem is a lot of people want to be 50/50 even when a relationship is supposed to be 100/100. 

If  you are in a relationship and for whatever reason you cannot seem find the time to just simply spend some one on one time with your lover something is definitely wrong, and quick communication must be made to either rectify the situation. Making time for one another IS love. That is what its all about. Even with life constantly trying to pull you two apart both must simply tell life NO and show your partner just how much they mean to you. Intimacy is also communication.