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Having Power Over Your Own Life And Why It's Important

Having Power Over Your Own Life And Why It's Important
When it comes to your own life, it is crucial that you have power over it. There is nothing more amazing than being in control of your destiny. If you feel that you do not have control in your life, then, it is vital that you take control and let everyone know that you are in charge of your life. Do not let people belittle you and take no heed of their comments as you have every right to make the decisions that impact your life because at the end of the day, it is going to be "you" who will be there when nobody else is.

Remember, you are not a "victim" of bad a childhood, bad luck, or bad circumstances. Instead, you have complete control to create the life that you have always wanted. The following are some of the reasons why it is important that you have power over your life.


1. For Your Mental Health
Not having control over your life can make you feel overwhelmed, anxious, or depressed. This is why it i…

100/100. Make time.

In a relationship keeping score on who did what, has no place. The very moment you enter into a relationship and your teammate (spouse) scores, the *team* gets a point. It's all about teamwork, so work as a team and head into a bright future instead of trying to one up one another.

There's nothing wrong with pursuing a person who's clearly worth your time but there's also no need to waste anyone's time if you still want to be "selfish" that's not to say that you would treat the person badly but it will show that you're more invested in "you" than you are in "us" which isn't fair to anybody because regardless of how good or beautiful a relationship it is, its always going to come with compromises some bigger than others but the problem is a lot of people want to be 50/50 even when a relationship is supposed to be 100/100. 

If  you are in a relationship and for whatever reason you cannot seem find the time to just simply spend some one on one time with your lover something is definitely wrong, and quick communication must be made to either rectify the situation. Making time for one another IS love. That is what its all about. Even with life constantly trying to pull you two apart both must simply tell life NO and show your partner just how much they mean to you. Intimacy is also communication.