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The Importance of Finding Balance in Life

The Importance of Finding Balance in LifeWe live in an extremely stressful world in which it can be difficult to live a good life. Everyone wants an existence that is filled with happiness. However, we all struggle with achieving contentment in our life. We end up falling off the wagon into burnout, lethargy, or gluttony. A lot of the time, we can be unnecessarily hard on ourselves. There is no reason for us to be so harsh. Instead, we should find a balance in life. It should neither be too idealistic or cynical. Since, we cannot exercise every day, eat healthy food all the time, or spend every day learning something new. This is why we have to aim for a balanced life. The following benefits of a balanced life will help you understand just how important it is.
1. Improves Your MoodOne of the main benefits of finding balance in life is that it allows us to feel more content. We will have a sound mind and be better prepared to battle negative thoughts including depression. You will also…

Don't be the only one giving 100% In the relationship

Don't be the only one giving 100% In the relationship
Things come and go, seasons change, and people tend to follow suit (as they should) because change is necessary. But with that said even while in a relationship *change* is also inevitable BUT That should not mean that the love you both share should become dry like a desert in fact it should be more like a plentiful oasis within this barren world. The key to this oasis is keeping the LOVE equal nobody should feel like they are giving more love than they are receiving, so in an effort to combat this both parties must in fact give 100% to each other, I'll call this the 100 to 100 rule.

Now these numbers may fluctuate given the pitfalls and barriers that tend to hit relationships but that does not mean it should ever deplete heck in all honestly if it dips below 50% you are already giving too much and settling for way less than you deserve ( 50 to 150 is extremely lopsided and a relationship is not a place that *lopsided* should ever prosper). Simply put keep the levels in a relationship as close to 100 to 100 as humanly possible and you will experience a love like no other. Love takes a lot of work and as you first meet the levels will be low but that is why you BUILD together until finally reaching 100%.

Both parties just have to be willing to do the work.