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Find Your Self-Love

Remembering To Always Love (You).

      Remembering To Always Love (You). Loving yourself is something that you might come across every now and then. However, it is easy to forget to love yourself, especially when you do something wrong or things do not go according to plan. There are many of us who tend to harm ourselves and simply do not love ourselves enough. However, the importance to always love who you are cannot be stressed enough. Since you are the entire universe, you deserve your own love and affection. The following reasons will encourage you to practice self-live. 1. Put Yourself First, But Don't Be Selfish. You have to put yourself first in every relationship. Whether you are a team member, a son, a parent, or a partner, you have to love yourself if you want to achieve what you desire. It does not matter what you might want in life. However, it is only when you truly love yourself do you allow yourself to be effective. When we love ourselves, we are likely to look after our needs. It ensures that we ar

Don't be the only one giving 100% In the relationship

Don't be the only one giving 100% In the relationship
Things come and go, seasons change, and people tend to follow suit (as they should) because change is necessary. But with that said even while in a relationship *change* is also inevitable BUT That should not mean that the love you both share should become dry like a desert in fact it should be more like a plentiful oasis within this barren world. The key to this oasis is keeping the LOVE equal nobody should feel like they are giving more love than they are receiving, so in an effort to combat this both parties must in fact give 100% to each other, I'll call this the 100 to 100 rule.

Now these numbers may fluctuate given the pitfalls and barriers that tend to hit relationships but that does not mean it should ever deplete heck in all honestly if it dips below 50% you are already giving too much and settling for way less than you deserve ( 50 to 150 is extremely lopsided and a relationship is not a place that *lopsided* should ever prosper). Simply put keep the levels in a relationship as close to 100 to 100 as humanly possible and you will experience a love like no other. Love takes a lot of work and as you first meet the levels will be low but that is why you BUILD together until finally reaching 100%.

Both parties just have to be willing to do the work.