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Dealing with Difficult People

Dealing with Difficult People We all come across people who can be difficult to deal with. However, sometimes, it can feel extremely frustrating. If you are struggling to deal with difficult people, you are not alone. People who refuse to collaborate, stick to their views, push you even when you try to help them, or do not turn their work can put you in a difficult situation. Rather than doing something that you will regret in the future, you should follow the tips mentioned below. They will help you get out of a tough situation. 1. Remain Calm One of the most important tips that you need to follow is remaining calm. Losing your temper is just not worth it. Instead of flaring out at the person who refuses to listen to you, you should assume a calm persona. When you are calm, you show the other person that you are in control and cannot be messed with. Thus, the person will quickly notice where they went wrong and do as desired. 2. Understand the Person The reason why some people may see

Don't be the only one giving 100% In the relationship

Don't be the only one giving 100% In the relationship
Things come and go, seasons change, and people tend to follow suit (as they should) because change is necessary. But with that said even while in a relationship *change* is also inevitable BUT That should not mean that the love you both share should become dry like a desert in fact it should be more like a plentiful oasis within this barren world. The key to this oasis is keeping the LOVE equal nobody should feel like they are giving more love than they are receiving, so in an effort to combat this both parties must in fact give 100% to each other, I'll call this the 100 to 100 rule.

Now these numbers may fluctuate given the pitfalls and barriers that tend to hit relationships but that does not mean it should ever deplete heck in all honestly if it dips below 50% you are already giving too much and settling for way less than you deserve ( 50 to 150 is extremely lopsided and a relationship is not a place that *lopsided* should ever prosper). Simply put keep the levels in a relationship as close to 100 to 100 as humanly possible and you will experience a love like no other. Love takes a lot of work and as you first meet the levels will be low but that is why you BUILD together until finally reaching 100%.

Both parties just have to be willing to do the work.