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2020 Affirmations

2020 Affirmations That You Need In Your Life.
2020 is the year of empowerment.
You need to know that you can train your mind just like any other muscle in your body. If you choose do so (and I hope you will) you will have the ability get over any obstacle in life that you might find being thrown your way. 
As difficult as it may seem to train your mind in this life, especially in moments and situations that really test your ability to even try, it will pay off big in the long run.
The moment I truly decided to incorporate many of these philosophies into my everyday life I started to notice EVERYTHING becoming better. Although it is still a work in progress, as many things in life are (and that is OK), I have been seeing more of those “amazing ups in life” and finding myself able to more effectively to get through those “terrible lows”  that can sneak up on you in life.
Everything in life comes down to being conscious of the many decisions that you make in your life and being willing …

Don't be the only one giving 100% In the relationship

Don't be the only one giving 100% In the relationship
Things come and go, seasons change, and people tend to follow suit (as they should) because change is necessary. But with that said even while in a relationship *change* is also inevitable BUT That should not mean that the love you both share should become dry like a desert in fact it should be more like a plentiful oasis within this barren world. The key to this oasis is keeping the LOVE equal nobody should feel like they are giving more love than they are receiving, so in an effort to combat this both parties must in fact give 100% to each other, I'll call this the 100 to 100 rule.

Now these numbers may fluctuate given the pitfalls and barriers that tend to hit relationships but that does not mean it should ever deplete heck in all honestly if it dips below 50% you are already giving too much and settling for way less than you deserve ( 50 to 150 is extremely lopsided and a relationship is not a place that *lopsided* should ever prosper). Simply put keep the levels in a relationship as close to 100 to 100 as humanly possible and you will experience a love like no other. Love takes a lot of work and as you first meet the levels will be low but that is why you BUILD together until finally reaching 100%.

Both parties just have to be willing to do the work.