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Dealing with Difficult People

Dealing with Difficult People We all come across people who can be difficult to deal with. However, sometimes, it can feel extremely frustrating. If you are struggling to deal with difficult people, you are not alone. People who refuse to collaborate, stick to their views, push you even when you try to help them, or do not turn their work can put you in a difficult situation. Rather than doing something that you will regret in the future, you should follow the tips mentioned below. They will help you get out of a tough situation. 1. Remain Calm One of the most important tips that you need to follow is remaining calm. Losing your temper is just not worth it. Instead of flaring out at the person who refuses to listen to you, you should assume a calm persona. When you are calm, you show the other person that you are in control and cannot be messed with. Thus, the person will quickly notice where they went wrong and do as desired. 2. Understand the Person The reason why some people may see

9 Steps For Building Self Confidence

Steps For Building Self Confidence




Confidence is like a muscle, everyone has it but most people do not know how to flex it! And like any muscle you want to grow stronger YOU HAVE GOT TO WORK IT OUT. So here are some of my favorite tips to exercising that self confidence muscle.


  1.  Optimism goes a long way on this journey. This is the biggest first step toward self confidence! This is just not a road that a pessimist can walk. 
  2. Music can change the world, it can soothe and just bring that great feeling into your life. So enjoy some tunes to lift that mood and expand that mindset. 
  3.  On the journey of change remember not to get down on yourself if you back-step in confidence here and there. This is your journey it is at your pace! nobody else's 
  4. Don't compare yourself to others in the slightest. You are a unique person so please i beg of you do not try to be like anybody else. Its a complete waste of time and effort. 
  5. Don't obsess over what you cannot do and instead trade that obsession for what you can accomplish ! You can get a lot done when you shift that focus into a positive area. 
  6. Find a nice support system of trusted people who you can talk to about your insecurities. This includes friends, family, and support groups. Talking it out can go a long way in pinpointing the reasons for the insecurities.
  7. Right and wrong on this road is very subjective so keep in mind that everyone's journey to self confidence is different even if the destination is the same. 
  8. This last one is an absolute MUST once you have attained self confidence pass it on to the next person. You just never know who needs that extra boost of self confidence at any given time. helping others will help you as well as them. 
  9. Good luck to you all though the journey will not necessarily be easy it will always be worth it in the end.

Confidence: (noun)- belief in oneself and one's powers or abilities; self-confidence; self-reliance; assurance


Good luck to you all though the journey will not necessarily be easy it will always be worth it in the end.