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Having Power Over Your Own Life And Why It's Important

Having Power Over Your Own Life And Why It's Important
When it comes to your own life, it is crucial that you have power over it. There is nothing more amazing than being in control of your destiny. If you feel that you do not have control in your life, then, it is vital that you take control and let everyone know that you are in charge of your life. Do not let people belittle you and take no heed of their comments as you have every right to make the decisions that impact your life because at the end of the day, it is going to be "you" who will be there when nobody else is.

Remember, you are not a "victim" of bad a childhood, bad luck, or bad circumstances. Instead, you have complete control to create the life that you have always wanted. The following are some of the reasons why it is important that you have power over your life.


1. For Your Mental Health
Not having control over your life can make you feel overwhelmed, anxious, or depressed. This is why it i…

9 Steps For Building Self Confidence

Steps For Building Self Confidence




Confidence is like a muscle, everyone has it but most people do not know how to flex it! And like any muscle you want to grow stronger YOU HAVE GOT TO WORK IT OUT. So here are some of my favorite tips to exercising that self confidence muscle.



  1.  Optimism goes a long way on this journey. This is the biggest first step toward self confidence! This is just not a road that a pessimist can walk. 
  2. Music can change the world, it can soothe and just bring that great feeling into your life. So enjoy some tunes to lift that mood and expand that mindset. 
  3.  On the journey of change remember not to get down on yourself if you back-step in confidence here and there. This is your journey it is at your pace! nobody else's 
  4. Don't compare yourself to others in the slightest. You are a unique person so please i beg of you do not try to be like anybody else. Its a complete waste of time and effort. 
  5. Don't obsess over what you cannot do and instead trade that obsession for what you can accomplish ! You can get a lot done when you shift that focus into a positive area. 
  6. Find a nice support system of trusted people who you can talk to about your insecurities. This includes friends, family, and support groups. Talking it out can go a long way in pinpointing the reasons for the insecurities.
  7. Right and wrong on this road is very subjective so keep in mind that everyone's journey to self confidence is different even if the destination is the same. 
  8. This last one is an absolute MUST once you have attained self confidence pass it on to the next person. You just never know who needs that extra boost of self confidence at any given time. helping others will help you as well as them. 
  9. Good luck to you all though the journey will not necessarily be easy it will always be worth it in the end.

Confidence: (noun)- belief in oneself and one's powers or abilities; self-confidence; self-reliance; assurance