RIP Avicii Lost but NEVER forgotten.
Friday, April 20, 2018
100/100. Make time.
Thursday, April 19, 2018
In a relationship keeping score on who did what, has no place. The very
moment you enter into a relationship and your teammate (spouse) scores,
the *team* gets a point. It's all about teamwork, so work as a team and
head into a bright future instead of trying to one up one another.
There's nothing wrong with pursuing a person who's clearly worth your time but there's also no need to waste anyone's time if you still want to be "selfish" that's not to say that you would treat the person badly but it will show that you're more invested in "you" than you are in "us" which isn't fair to anybody because regardless of how good or beautiful a relationship it is, its always going to come with compromises some bigger than others but the problem is a lot of people want to be 50/50 even when a relationship is supposed to be 100/100.
If you are in a relationship and for whatever reason you cannot seem find
the time to just simply spend some one on one time with your lover
something is definitely wrong, and quick communication must be made to
either rectify the situation. Making time for one another IS love. That
is what its all about. Even with life constantly trying to pull you two
apart both must simply tell life NO and show your partner just how much
they mean to you. Intimacy is also communication.
Like peering through glass.
Wednesday, April 18, 2018
Reclaim your authentic *self*
Being vulnerable can seem like somewhat of a weakness but
in any real relationship vulnerability is needed to strengthen the bond
forged between two people. As you begin to dive into those deeper
emotions you begin to find and hopefully accept each others authentic
*self*.
Like peering through glass, our true selves can only be seen if we allow it. Most people need to learn to open up the curtains and let themselves be seen! Only then can ones true beauty be realized.
Happiness My Way
Tuesday, April 17, 2018
You can't fix something that the other person keeps breaking
Monday, April 16, 2018
Some people make it nearly impossible to stay in love with them by
constantly destroying the foundation of the relationship time and time
again (you can't fix something that the other person keeps breaking). In
time you will happy again after the initial break BUT without a doubt
the life you life will be better off without said person in it.
True love is not something easily found
Saturday, April 14, 2018
True love is not something easily
found, that's because it tends to stumble upon you instead. The purest
form of love can be the most wonderful thing a person can experience in
life. True love doesn't find itself demanding change from you as it
accepts you for who you are completely and utterly.
True love stays committed, and because it's unconditional it must be
equal (giving it and accepting it) at all times otherwise the harmony of
balance can be broken.
loving oneself is the first step on the road of love take it.
Stress will find you one way or another,
so focusing it into something positive will benefit you greatly, use it
like fuel, fuel for your success, to get that drive in you going, for
inspiration in the workplace, just avoid the negativity that can come
with stress. Being stressed out sucks but it doesn't have to be *wasted
energy*. let stress motivate you, let it inspire you! But don't ever let
it rule you.
Protect your sanity from negative influences
Thursday, April 12, 2018
With wisdom comes better judgement which is gained from life experience
aka learning, and with insight comes the ability to understand people
and situations in a clear way, see the true nature of things.
Wisdom and insight go hand in hand and are powerful tools to break
down any wall that may stand in your way. These are essential tools if
one is to be happy and navigate this crazy world, we need only use them.
Become The Good in Everything
Wednesday, April 11, 2018
Never hate yourself for the decisions
you make, whatever happened throughout the course of the day when its
all said and done it was your choice to make, and you should stick to it
and believe in yourself no matter what, even if it brings about
negative consequences you can make the choice to right those wrongs and
move on and make better choices.
There is no point in hating anything about yourself, there are plenty of
other people in this world who will hate you for no reason at all so if
anything, love and believe in yourself.
Deep and Genuine Love
Tuesday, April 10, 2018
Reclaim Genuine Love
Genuine love comes from the deepest parts of a relationship, and should
be primordial in nature before making the relationship serious. If a
healthy relationship is what one is going for, this kind of love
requires unconditional love as its point of origin, being loved
unconditionally is the best feeling you can have with another because
you can just be yourself without all the extra expectations of another
being dropped upon you like a ton of bricks.
I Only Want Positivity in My Life
Monday, April 9, 2018
In
a world full of negativity, support should always be welcomed to help
us through tough times, let us not forget that the world has an
unlimited amount of ways for something to go awry. With positive support
from those around you can become greater in life, nothing can replace
the genuine love and support of those who want nothing more than your
happiness and success.
Finding
a positive support system is going to make life that much easier, the
social aspects of it alone can let some of that daily stress melt away
by allowing you to vent and/or discuss your problems with friends and
family and even get a unique perspective. Some people are born with a
great family support system, while others have to look for the support
elsewhere but once found it is essential to a better life.
Don't be the only one giving 100% In the relationship
Sunday, April 8, 2018
Now these numbers may fluctuate given the pitfalls and barriers that tend to hit relationships but that does not mean it should ever deplete heck in all honestly if it dips below 50% you are already giving too much and settling for way less than you deserve ( 50 to 150 is extremely lopsided and a relationship is not a place that *lopsided* should ever prosper). Simply put keep the levels in a relationship as close to 100 to 100 as humanly possible and you will experience a love like no other. Love takes a lot of work and as you first meet the levels will be low but that is why you BUILD together until finally reaching 100%.
Both parties just have to be willing to do the work.
Beneath the Arguments
Friday, April 6, 2018
To make the road of love a tad bit
easier to travel, Let us focus on some common barriers a healthy
relationship can face, since they can can take many different shapes and
forms in life.
Here are some primes examples:
- The thought that you are not worthy to be loved (this is a big one!)
- Poor listening skills.
- A lack of empathy.
- The lack of Mutual communication.
- A lack Compromise.
- A lack of honesty.
- The lack of dedication to the one you love and vice-versa.
- A lack of trust.
The list goes on, but the thing about barriers is that they can be
removed by doing the opposite (which can be easier said than done for
some people). without a doubt NONE of these issues should ever be
present in any relationship if you want it to be a healthy and
long-lasting one...end of story.
Just A Bit Further (Never Give Up)
Thursday, April 5, 2018
| Reclaim The crown |
A willingness to change can produce
some truly phenomenal things, with change comes the flexibly needed to
overcome issues in life and the strength to progress in the right
direction. People who are not willing to change often find life becoming
stagnant and tend to be going through the motions so to speak, which is
never a good thing.
Remember to change for yourself and not for other people and whether
its a smaller change or a bigger one, it can be a good thing in life
because with personal improvement comes new opportunities.
Never be used again!
Wednesday, April 4, 2018
The harmony between two partners is one of the most vital parts to being
happy within a relationship. But when the harmony is broken everything
eventually descends into chaos, and things like distrust, constant
bickering, and at some point the person you thought you loved will start
to feel like a stranger. If the person refuses to walk the road to change staying with them is going to be a waste of time and energy.
Selfishness can cause even the strongest relationships to fracture.
Nobody wants to be with someone who tends to be so focused on themselves
that they cannot see the relationship. That being said, the priorities
in a healthy relationship should be the ability to create an environment
of caring for one another because its much better to have a person who
is willing to share everything with you, go through hard times with you,
and love you accordingly.
Under no circumstance should you feel neglected or feel
like The lone support system of the relationship (feeling constantly alone in every situation), it
hurts to be taken for granted and quite simply the person who is found
doing this should be cut off because that's not love and its unlikely
that such behavior will change.
A person who is literally making you feel as if they have an advantage over you in the relationship will always be a bad thing.
A person who is literally making you feel as if they have an advantage over you in the relationship will always be a bad thing.
One Day
Monday, April 2, 2018
One true mark of a good relationship is when you can tell each other
anything and everything. Pretty much a love void of secret and lies. Who
wouldn't want to feel love like that?
Finding someone to truly love you for
*you* is the best feeling in the world, who would want to be stuck in a
relationship with somebody who refuses to let you to have creative
freedom over even yourself? Talk about putting a huge strain in the
relationship.
So with that said find someone who will undoubtedly love you for the person you are and enjoy life with another.
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