When things go wrong in a relationship the possibility of fixing it will
always be present but if you have to constantly repair the same issues
over and over again the emotional and physical cost begins to rise
higher and higher, and once that cost begins to outweigh the benefits of
the repair. moving on might just be the best course of action find
someone who isn't so prone to needing repair.
Sometimes no matter how hard you try to make things work some people in a
relationship just do not mesh, and as you cannot *force* two different
puzzle pieces that do not fit to form the right picture, you definitely
will not be able to force a relationship to go in the right direction if
the compatibility is just not there.You cannot force a relationship to
work out.
In any relationship similarities and
differences will without a doubt become apparent and with that being
said, one should relish in the similarities within the relationship but
do not forsake the differences just yet because they can sometimes
become way for you and the one you love to explore new things together
(who knows those very differences might become new similarities!).
A strong bond in love is created by immersing in the similarities and
being willing and able to accept the differences while continuing to
grow together as a couple.
There
are indeed two sides to every emotion. If you reward your lovers
positive attitude with gratitude, they will present that same feeling
again to you (and if they don't they are definitely not the *one*).
Showing others who one really is without exaggeration or deception is paramount in any good relationship.
