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Having Power Over Your Own Life And Why It's Important

Having Power Over Your Own Life And Why It's Important
When it comes to your own life, it is crucial that you have power over it. There is nothing more amazing than being in control of your destiny. If you feel that you do not have control in your life, then, it is vital that you take control and let everyone know that you are in charge of your life. Do not let people belittle you and take no heed of their comments as you have every right to make the decisions that impact your life because at the end of the day, it is going to be "you" who will be there when nobody else is.

Remember, you are not a "victim" of bad a childhood, bad luck, or bad circumstances. Instead, you have complete control to create the life that you have always wanted. The following are some of the reasons why it is important that you have power over your life.


1. For Your Mental Health
Not having control over your life can make you feel overwhelmed, anxious, or depressed. This is why it i…

Letting go of people

Letting go of people: Change is inevitable.



Sometimes you just outgrow people, and yes it can sometimes become very lonely but some connections are just not meant to last.


Sometimes you just outgrow people, and yes it can sometimes become very lonely but some connections are just not meant to last. Though letting go of people who may have had an effect on who you are is going to be somewhat difficult depending on the person, it will be for the better. That being said at the end of the day you can either choose to stop growing and constantly look to the past or you can accept the fact that people grow apart and move on. Growing will present you with a whole new perspective and you will eventually find that people who will be willing to share the view with you will begin to gather alongside you.

Changes in life are inevitable, and these changes usually carry a kind of positive/negative effect. There are times when the changes are really really good and other times when they are just down right horrible, but change is a part of life and its absolutely necessary for progress, it's also possible that the good/bad changes will make you stronger. Fighting the bad and ignoring the good will just leave you feeling empty and nobody wants that feeling. The ability to cope with the bad times and to recognize enjoy the good times are the only way to be somewhat happy.