Some Quotes To Live By

Some Quotes To Live By

Tuesday, July 2, 2019

 Some Quotes To Live By and Some Quotes To Consider.

 Living your best life is going to take a little work. 

 Never let anyone convince you that they hold the key to any of the doors that you want to open in life. You are the key and all you have to do is use your will and open the door. You don't bend to their will anymore.

 Some people will try to play games with your happiness and some might even succeed for a short amount of time, but it's up to you to let them know that something like that will never fly in your life again. Your life, your rules. No exceptions. You don't play by their rules anymore. 

 You don't have to put up with disloyal and uncaring people in your life anymore. You deserve to be around people who actually give a damn about you and are willing to actually take you and your feelings into consideration.

When you set boundaries in your life you need to have people around you that will respect them, because if they don't respect your boundaries can they really say that they love and respect you? No, no they cannot. If a person can step over the line that you drew in the sand so easily they probably never cared about how you felt in the first place. Don't allow ANYONE to step over the boundaries that you set in your life.

 Nobody on this earth has more control over your happiness than you do and yet we live in a world where some people will do just about anything to have you convinced that they hold your happiness in the palm of their hand and that they can do whatever they wish with it and that is so far from the truth. You are your happiness do you understand that? Don't let them mess with your happiness! Don't let them mess with you!

 Certain people in life seem to take pleasure in manipulating the emotions of others for their gain, That won't be you! That is over and done with isn't it? Nobody can manipulate your emotions better than you can! Choose happiness and positivity over the unhappiness and negativity that certain people try to inject into your life. 

It doesn't matter if its a Relationship, Friendship, or complicationship you do not let anyone take your love and kindness for granted. You will always deserve better than that in your life and all you have to do is truly know that and you will never allow people to take you for granted ever again I promise you that much.

Love and Desire.

Love and Desire.

Thursday, June 27, 2019

It's much better to feel valued and loved in a relationship than to simply be a desire. Lust is *fleeting* in every sense of the word it comes and goes but when you truly value someone and they value you it takes the relationship to a whole new level.

Honestly there's a thin line between love and desire and people usually tend to pick one or the other which is sad considering that with the right mix of both of these it can bring about a pretty darn healthy relationship. it's all about a healthy balance, that is what a relationship craves.

Whats Wrong With Being Too Nice?

Whats Wrong With Being Too Nice?

Tuesday, June 25, 2019

 Being too nice and always saying yes, even when you really mean no, can lead to some annoying situations in life. Don't let people take advantage of you and be sure to let them know that you are serious when you use the word “no” and you will not change your mind. Sometimes you just have to put your foot down. 

 Here's the thing, time and time again we may come to find ourselves at the crossroad of personal happiness versus the happiness of others, but the thing about personal happiness is that it can also be help to others, i mean who wants a person who is unhappy helping them? Nobody does because they treat it like a chore. Once personal happiness is in hand one becomes more inclined to pass this great feelings onto another. And less inclined to allow people the room to mess with said happiness.

 There will still be times were choosing the overly nice route may not be for the best, as you will be helping other people throughout life and sometimes your personal happiness may get put on the back burner for awhile so keeping a type balance between being nice, but not too nice, is probably for the best considering life and people seem to love throwing curve-balls left and right just to test your mettle. Just do not let the balance tip in favor of others too much because at the end of the day your happiness matters just as much as anyone else's, never lose that mindset. Keep the balance no matter what.

Let them judge

Let them judge

Dealing with judgmental people can be a serious hassle, they always seem to have time to project all that bitterness they feel inside onto others. The best thing to do when dealing with this type of human being is to never lose your compassion for people, its obvious that those who feel the need to judge are very sad and lost people with such little focus on their life. 

With that being said you have got to stand up for yourself and just deny them the right to even play a part in your life. You have the power to dismiss a hater any time you wish, never forget that.

At the end of the day judgmental people will pop up from time to time just ignore the criticism that they give off because it is in not constructive and if its not constructive it serves absolutely no purpose in your life.

Simply put if someone finds the time to hate on whatever you are trying to accomplish in YOUR life...Fuck em.

You deserve to be surrounded by supportive and genuine people

You deserve to be surrounded by supportive and genuine people

Monday, June 24, 2019

If the people in your life are not supportive it might be time to get new people in your life. Having supportive people around you is so important when it comes to happiness because nobody wants to feel alone in any endeavor they wish to venture. You deserve to be surrounded by supportive and genuine people and you had better not settle for anything less.

If they don't support, they aren't of any import. 

7 Things That You Need To Hear.

7 Things That You Need To Hear.

Friday, June 21, 2019

7 Things That You Need To Hear In Life. 

We all have the power to be more, to choose what we want in life, to go after our desires without any regret. Life is what we make of it and sometimes you have to get inventive with the materials that have been given, but also remember that you will most likely have to seek out new materials if you ever want to build a good foundation for happiness in your life.

 There is a blueprint to happiness and it's one that you have to draw for yourself because everything that is worth it in this life is going to take hard work. Remember that no two blueprints in this life are ever drawn the same so stay focused on finishing your own.

5 Relatable Quotes About Life

5 Relatable Quotes About Life

Monday, June 17, 2019

5 Relatable Quotes About Life

 

Pain is an excellent reminder of what kind of investment has to be made to have a life truly worth living.

Strength is not made without going through pain and while we may not even ask for it, pain can be the catalyst that allows us to grow. No matter where you are today it’s not the end of your journey. Stay strong and continue to endure the pain and learn from it!

Take all that pain and turn it into "self-love" and using that as a foundation you can give that same love to others. That is growth. That is the meaning behind the pain. It is there to use as nutrient for an amazing growth period in your life!   

Taking Back The Love For Yourself

Taking Back The Love For Yourself

Friday, June 7, 2019

 It's time to Reclaim Your Self-love.

We have all had those days where we think about a number of things we wish could change from acne to our literal body shape "I just can't do this" and the bullies who seem to just know that one thing you already hate about yourself and dig a knife right into it are no help at all are they? To find self love we have to drown out all outside NEGATIVE opinions and then silence negativity inside your own mind.  
  

Here are some quick tips to get started with taking back the love for yourself that negative influences tried to take away.

• Understand who your friends truly are. if these people are more interested in tearing you down than building you up YOU DO NOT NEED THEM you are a powerful person who can do anything you want WITHOUT THEM. Say goodbye to fake friends
• Don't let ANYBODY stop you from getting your education or your money. The opinions of others DO NOT MATTER. Leave them behind and never let them weigh you down.
• Explore your own fashion and stop trying to look like everybody else. the true trend setters never looked at anybody else. Stay in your lane the other ones are taken. 
• Do not find yourself looking for sympathy....they do not care. that mean fix your life for yourself and enjoy the benefits of getting your shit together
• Find out who you are and project that mindset into the world...be sure of yourself and do not let anyone ever stop you. do not let anything take you down.
• You are a boss. Always have this mindset. let this way of thinking lead you into any territory in life and completely own it. 
• Put all of this into action! yes changing ones self is not easy but it is possible. YOU CAN LOVE YOURSELF AGAIN AND YOU CAN BE THE BOSS OF YOUR WORLD! 

You can't expect everyone to understand you. So don't let other people's lack of understanding control who you are or how you want to act. Be yourself for yourself. 

If this guide has helped you in any way please share in around! The time is now for people to once again love themselves 

Be fearless And Unrelenting

Be fearless And Unrelenting

Tuesday, May 28, 2019

Your journey will not look like anyone else's but that's OK because it doesn't have to. Everyone walks a different path toward happiness, and we all have road blocks and pitfalls along the way that tend to make this journey treacherous. But know this your mind and soul are your best weapons to tear the walls from their foundation and cross those pitfalls with confidence. Now I'm not saying it's going to be easy, hell in fact it's going to be down right hard, but it will be worth it in the end. Just remember to never let other people lead you off of your path and onto theirs. Be fearless and unrelenting in the pursuit of your happiness.

10 Motivational Quotes Just For You.

10 Motivational Quotes Just For You.

Monday, May 27, 2019

Sometimes life gets a little hard, sometimes life gets very hard, but regardless of where your day falls on that spectrum, inspirational quotes are always there to help!

Below is a list of some of the best motivational, inspirational, and encouraging quotes that will help make life a little easier.  

Own This Life like Only You Can

Own This Life like Only You Can

Saturday, May 25, 2019

You have to attract people who end up bringing that amazing light out of you. People with like minds who truly value loyalty over everything else. People who hold themselves to a higher standard and want the best for you too.  

You have to want these things for yourself too. Own this life like only you can:

• Be intentional with everything that you do in life and keep that intent aimed at being positive, happy, and successful.

• Be honest in who you say you are and love the hell out of that person. 

• Show up for those who show up for you.  Don't build houses for people who wouldn't even offer you a single brick.

• Treat people with compassion and welcome, but also remember that some people will need to exit your life. Not everybody is going to be good for your happiness.

• Do what you can to make life a bit more easier for yourself, and others. But remember not to allow people to make your life harder than it needs to be.

6 Life Lessons To Consider

6 Life Lessons To Consider

Tuesday, May 14, 2019

1. Focus on what you want to achieve and get that shit done!

2. Take ownership of your life, be deliberate, Otherwise, someone else will try to in your stead.

3. Be disciplined but not so disciplined that you cannot enjoy life. Moderation and balance is key.

4. Be Fearless, fight for what you want but also remember that there is also a time to be gentle and a time to retreat.

5. Engage with people you respect and make sure that they respect you as well.

6. Make happiness a priority because that is one of the most important things you can do for yourself. Life without some happiness isn't a life at all. Seek happiness always.

7 Inspirational And Motivational Quotes For The Week

7 Inspirational And Motivational Quotes For The Week

Friday, May 10, 2019

7 Inspirational And Motivational Quotes For The Week.

Sometimes life gets a little hard, sometimes life gets very hard, but regardless of where your day falls on that spectrum, inspirational quotes are always there to help!

The 6 Step Foundation of Trust in Relationships.

The 6 Step Foundation of Trust in Relationships.

Wednesday, May 8, 2019

 A 6 Step Foundation

 Trust in relationships is not just a single building block, but the entire foundation of being happy together, and without a stable foundation how can one hope to forge an unbreakable and healthy relationship. 

 If trust is not found the love will surely fall apart, since nothing is built in a day and as such trust will not be built in a single instance, but before moving on to the next steps of love this foundation must be established first. Below is a small list of necessities: 

1. Trustworthiness is a must.
2.  Always stay faithful to the one you love.
3.  Mutual assurance that you feel wanted by one another.
4. No roaming eye's (keep those eye's on the one you love).
5. Make an honest effort to spend quality time together with no interruption.
6.  Be sure that support is mutual.

With these 6 rules as a foundation and a lot of hard work, building a relationship that is both strong and healthy is without a doubt possible. it just takes the right mindset and hard work. 

A Warning Label For Being In Love

A Warning Label For Being In Love

Love is work but its not a job

Love without a doubt takes a great deal time and work to sustain, but it should never feel like a job that makes you bend over backwards for. Love should be a deep feeling for another, unconditional and authentic in every way.

A relationship is a lot like building a fire...first you need to gather all the materials (Patience,Trust,Vulnerability, oh and wood! things like that) and then you have to build them up in the most efficient way possible to get this fire going, once that's completed all that's left is that one *spark* to get the fire going But remember what keeps a fire going and going? You must continue to pour more materials into it to keep it alive and like love if you stop feeding the flame of your relationship it will simply go out.

Of course being in love is not easy nothing in this life is, even love must be worked at on a daily basis, a work in progress so to speak. Don't give up on it and it won't give up on you. simple as that....better yet no its not simple, not at all. Love can be hard.

The thing is change is inevitable in relationships and you know what that means, LEARN TO ADAPT hone this skill because it will serve you well forever. When two people come together over time one of them is bound to change, and being able to roll with the punches if such a shift should occur is never going to be a bad thing. Adapt adapt adapt! Love is a willingness to adapt

Words can either be used to mend a person or harm them. Any true relationship relies on honest communication between two people who intend to love each other forever, and as such the words you speak can either bring two people closer or drive a wedge which will ultimately lead to a bad outcome, so be wise with your words because Love is indeed communication.

Compromise is essential in any relationship that plans on making it into old age. Overtime most couples will start to realize that certain differences start to creep up and some type of sacrifice will need to be made to keep the peace, but these sacrifices should be small in comparison to the love you have for you partner as such you should never let any compromise become a strain on the relationship under any circumstance (never settle for less, settle for mutual happiness), meet one another in the middle while considering each others personal needs to keep both parties happy... Love is compromise.

Relationships are all about harmony and as such only when both people are *happy* can it finally be somewhat harmonious, and even though disagreements will still pop up from time to time it will be easier for the relationship to weather them and find a peaceful resolution. If one side of the equation is feeling less than content with how things are going the balance is beginning to shift in the wrong direction. It takes two happy people to forge a happy relationship. Love is harmony.

All great relationships will require a good amount of intimacy and any relationship without some type of intimacy is most likely doomed to fail, a nice mix of physical and emotional intimacy will keep you and your partner happy, but you must be willing to learn from one another while peering into who your partner really is deep down accepting each others faults and growing stronger in love because of said acceptance. Understand that Love is intimacy.
                        

Every relationship has Its fair share of ups and downs right?  

Any good relationship has its fair share of ups and downs. But when those very scales start to tip toward the downs way more often than not and everything becomes a reason to dip into the pool of negativity the emotional burden set upon the back of the relationship may just be too much for it to bear. Constant negativity will cause any partnership to erode overtime. Now while no real relationship is perfect....nobody should have to put up with constant negativity and if it cannot be fixed with communication then it may be time to cut the cord and save yourself. 

As a couple, progressing in a direction both parties can agree on is a necessity to any healthy relationship. It serves no purpose for a couple to come together only to veer in two different directions, as it will most likely end up hindering the relationship further down the line. So if you cannot progress with them it might be for the best that you find someone who is going the same way as you, relationships always work better when synergy takes place of chaos.

Love is work but its not a job

Love without a doubt takes a great deal time and work to sustain, but it should never feel like a job that makes you bend over backwards for. Love should be a deep feeling for another, unconditional and authentic in every way.

A relationship is a lot like building a fire...first you need to gather all the materials (Patience,Trust,Vulnerability, oh and wood! things like that) and then you have to build them up in the most efficient way possible to get this fire going, once that's completed all that's left is that one *spark* to get the fire going But remember what keeps a fire going and going? You must continue to pour more materials into it to keep it alive and like love if you stop feeding the flame of your relationship it will simply go out.

A healthy relationship has no need for petty games, as such never make him/her feel disrespected, unimportant, or controlled. Instead make her/him feel loved, important and needed in the relationship, show the one you love what REAL trust and communication looks like. 

Nobody wants to go through a cycle of pain,lies, and betrayal and nobody should! 

 Love Demands Action

Love between two people has been and always will be a verb and as such is requires action. That means both parties need to make it crystal clear just how much they love one another, honestly if a person is constantly saying that they love you and no action is taking place (whether it's big or small) that is just not going to work out.

- A small gesture of love is not to much to ask
Love requires one to simply take action. 

Letting go of people

Letting go of people

Letting go of people: Change is inevitable.

Sometimes you just outgrow people, and yes it can sometimes become very lonely but some connections are just not meant to last. Though letting go of people who may have had an effect on who you are is going to be somewhat difficult depending on the person, it will be for the better. That being said at the end of the day you can either choose to stop growing and constantly look to the past or you can accept the fact that people grow apart and move on. Growing will present you with a whole new perspective and you will eventually find that people who will be willing to share the view with you will begin to gather alongside you.

Changes in life are inevitable, and these changes usually carry a kind of positive/negative effect. There are times when the changes are really really good and other times when they are just down right horrible, but change is a part of life and its absolutely necessary for progress, it's also possible that the good/bad changes will make you stronger. Fighting the bad and ignoring the good will just leave you feeling empty and nobody wants that feeling. The ability to cope with the bad times and to recognize enjoy the good times are the only way to be somewhat happy.     

Keep Your Positivity. Let Go of Negativity

Keep Your Positivity. Let Go of Negativity

Tuesday, May 7, 2019

A positive life is built by surrounding ones self with positive people and being a positive person yourself.

It is a known fact that the emotions of those around us can indeed affect our outlook on life, being surrounded by negative people will eventually make you negative in some aspect of your life.

If there are too many negative people in your life who just refuse to be happy, it may just be time to  distance yourself from them for a time and recharge. 

Now in a world full of negativity, support should always be welcomed to help us through tough times, let us not forget that the world has an unlimited amount of ways for something to go awry. With positive support from those around you can become greater in life, nothing can replace the genuine love and support of those who want nothing more than your happiness and success.

Finding a positive support system is going to make life that much easier, the social aspects of it alone can let some of that daily stress melt away by allowing you to vent and/or discuss your problems with friends and family and even get a unique perspective. Some people are born with a great family support system, while others have to look for the support elsewhere but once found it is essential to a better life. 

With all that said Sometimes you simply have to detach from the people that tend to constantly threaten the peace and progress in your life. A time comes when its got to be about you and your way of living, and NOT feeling infringed upon by the negativity energy of certain people around you so instead, Invest in positive and supportive people and leave the negative ones behind to wallow because its hard to move forward with negativity weighing you down constantly.

Elevate your perspective

Elevate your perspective

Sunday, May 5, 2019

 Do everything in your power to elevate your perspective to gain a greater sense of self. It's time to vibrate higher.Success is just right around the corner if you are willing to walk to it.

Knowledge & Power

Knowledge & Power

Friday, May 3, 2019

Know the power of Self-Care.

Seek the knowledge of Self-Love.